Last week, the good people of Dating 4-1-1 have listed some of the things you should never ever say to your partner to avoid any complications that could probably ruin your relationship. We certainly hope that those things did help you out and will help you out more in the time. Of course, we know that you guys still want more. So as a follow-up to that article, here is another article that will help you avoid any other unnecessary fight that may come your way. Here are some things you guys out there should never ask your girlfriends (Next post, something for the ladies.)"Can I borrow some money?"
It may sound too cliche but it it still the common belief that the man is supposed to provide for the woman in their relationship. This is to make her feel more secure and sure about your relationship. So asking her to lend you money shatters this faith completely, especially to those women who are more dependent to their partners. This will also make her question you money sense, putting doubt in her mind about you being the strong and capable alpha-male who is supposed to have the financial responsibility in the relationship. If you are having money problems, why not just ask a buddy or get another job.
"Are you wearing that?"
There's a reason why women take so much time getting prepared when you guys are going out for a date. And that is because they are always making sure that they look good for you. This also assures them about themselves. But when you ask them this question, it's just the same as telling them that they are ugly or they don't look good at all. This question is also telling her that all her hard work in preparing for you just went down the drain. Just appreciate the fact that they took time to dress up because let's admit it, dressing up for women is a lot more difficult than for men.
"Why don't you go to the gym?"
This is a like the previous one. Asking him this question is just like telling her that she is a fat pig. And you know that no woman likes being told that she is fat. So if you ever feel that your girlfriend is gaining more weight than necessary, try telling her in a more subtle way.
"How many guys have you slept with?"
Most guys are pretty much fantasizing that their girlfriends are virginal being untouched by any form of vulgarity. But most of the time, this is not the case. And if you are a sane fellow, you will never ever think that you are your girlfriend's first-time. The same as you should never ever try to ask her how many fellows has she been with. Just be happy that you are together at the present and not go back to silly past relationships.
"Do you wanna have a threesome?"
Unless you have a girlfriend who is a nymphomaniac or a pornstar, this question should always be kept to yourself. Asking you partner to partake in your deepest sexual fantasy, no matter how dreamy and romantic you wanna put it, is always very dangerous. For one because of that green-eyed monster called jealousy. Then add to that your girlfriend wondering for the rest of your time together that she may not be enough for you that's why you're trying to add someone to your sexual relationship.
"Did you cum?"
It's a common notion that when men finish up during sex, most women may not have really started with theirs. That is why there have been so many popular consensus about women faking it to avoid hurting the ego and feelings of their partner. However, this doesn't give any man rights to ask if their partner did finish up like he did. The question just puts her in the spot and brings into question her sincerity to you. And besides, asking this question just after you guys have shared a special bond is definitely a mood killer. Just be happy that she is doing it with you and not some horny bastard out there.
"Why do you have to be such a bitch?"
This is just like saying that she is a bitch. Enough said.
So there you go. Just some of the questions no man should ask his girlfriend unless he wants to end a pretty good relationship. Next post, the list for all the ladies out there.
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