Healthy Date Tips for the Health-Conscious

Are you the kind of health-buff who always see to it that everything you do should be at par to your dietary and health regiment? And is this healthy lifestyle the reason why you don't do out much on dates because dates are always full of food, booze and sitting around that is not really parts of your routine? Well, here are some fit date ideas that will not only have you keep your healthy living but also have you start an even healthier social life:

1. Rock Climbing
This activity may actually have been made for couples. First, it involves trust, which is pretty much the most important thing when it comes to relationship. Rock climbing will also allow you to get touchy with your date, especially if at least one of you is a first-timer in this activity.

2. Hiking
We've been insisting here at Dating 4-1-1 that dates should be done somewhere the both of you can talk and get to know each other. With hiking, you can do this at the same time burn some calories in the process. Match this with fresh air and stunning scenery, you get a very unique romantic date both of you definitely will remember for a long time.

3. Frisbee
The joys of a Frisbee date are threefold: First, anyone can do it. Second, it's free. Third, it will put her in a playful, frolicsome mood. Need I say more?

4. Yoga
Yoga may not be the most macho of activities a guy wants, but hey, it's something both of you can try for the first time and learn together. It's a sure fired way to have you guys earning good points as your lady dates will think of you as the sweet, sensitive guy they have been looking for. For the girls, you can show to the guys just how limber and flexible you are, showing to your date how sexy you can get. They will surely be drooling over you in no time. Win-win situation no matter which side you're playing for.

5. Kayaking
Could anything be more romantic than paddling through the open water next with your date? None! But just remember to pick a scenic locale that is not too rough for the both of you, especially if neither of you haven't tried this sport in the past. This activity will also have you seeing your date and their body clad only on their sexiest wetsuits.

6. Ice Skating
This activity is the stuff used on romantic movies. And there's a reason why. Helping your date to tie their laces starts off this date. Then imagine the both of you being in a chilly state and surely, one of you will be reaching out the other's hand for guidance and warmth.

7. Batting Cage
It doesn't matter if you're no Barry Bonds or Mark McGwire, going to the batting cage and teaching your lady friend the basics of America's favorite pasttime will surely have you earning much needed points. This date will surely be something new to most girls as baseball is not common sports for women.

8. Mountain Biking
Just like hiking, this activity will let you and your date talk and get to know each other. And for dates, that is exactly what you're looking for. Just don't get too serious with the biking part though and leave your date on the trail all alone.

9. Driving Range
Just like being in the batting cage. Only difference, a club as the bat and it's called golf.

10. Dancing
Really self-explanatory. You've seen it in movies and you know just how romantic times on the dance floor can be. So why not try it for yourself.

There you go. Be healthy at the same time, be hooked. Nothing like the joy of sports with someone to play them with. Now get on out of here and make those arrangements.

Tips on How to Turn Digits Into Dates

I bet all of us have been in this situation at least one time in our lives. You were able to get the number of that hot babe or cute hunk over the bar. It was the best moment of your life which boosted your self-worth a couple of steps up. However when you called, things got "weird" and you end up being a babbling buffoon and ended up not seeing them again. Well, we here at Dating 4-1-1 decided to help you out in this department with these helpful tips that will have you turning those digits you scored one night into romantic dates the next. Use these tips to help you in doing it the right way.

1. Conquer your fear
The first problem one can encounter in trying to score a date after getting a telephone number is oneself. This is especially true with guys who always want to be cool about it so they postpone calling the girl a couple of days after they got their number. This then turn into weeks, then months until they finally lose the chance of seeing the hot lady again. All you have to do is just swallow your pride and fear and dial that phone and make that call.

2. Keep it short
If you does manage to get the balls to call them, be sure to be brief and precise. It's a common misconception that people wants to talk long on the phone when it's the first time you do talk. Just set up the date and leave all the talking on that said date. This is because if you talk long, this will just make you a pathetic loser in the eyes of your prospect because you don't have anything more important to do but talk on the phone.

3. End it first
Now this is one secret only a chosen gifted few knows. When having a conversation over the phone, the one who ends the call first wins the interaction. So if you are the one who cuts the conversation short, this gives you power. And if you're a guy, this will show girl that you are a man of confidence and dignity. And what else are women looking for in a guy but those two things.

4. Limit the time frame
When you agree on a date, be SPECIFIC about what you are going to do and how long you'll be together. You can say something like, “Let's meet at Tom's on Thursday at 8:00 p.m. for 20 minutes or so and have a quick drink." This way you won't scare off your date. When you set up a short time frame for the meeting, you avoid expectations. You won’t be forced to spend time with someone you aren’t into.

5. Dealing with voicemail
If you're afraid of leaving a message on their machine, you may have just lost another date because most people have it and use it to screen their calls, especially if they are so used to giving their numbers to strangers like you. That is why it is important for you to learn how to leave a voicemail for them. Keep the message short and sweet. Remind them who you are but don't give too much details. Just tell them where and when you met and a little background about you. Simple and to the point is always the best. If they don't call you back, just give it some time and try again. If you don't get a call after that, just move on. Don't act like a stalker. And if they do call back, good for you. This is when you use the other tips.

6. Be spontaneous and be yourself
This is probably the most overused cliche for dating but it is still the best tip you can get. Pretending to be another person is not cool when it comes to dating, whichever medium you're trying it on.

If the phone continues to be an obstacle for you, it’s probably because you aren’t creating enough attraction when you first meet. Luckily, this is a fairly easy fix as well, by just trying these tips to become the Casanova that you ally are.

Dance Your Way to Their Hearts, But Not With These Moves

One good idea for a date to make it extra special is by going into a club and go dancing. This is specially good for people who knows how to bust a move. But for some who have two left legs, it's still okay as long as you know what you are doing. You are having fun with you date, at the same time burning some unwanted calories to have you looking better. But most of us are scared to go to the dance floor and get embarrassed. But we here at Dating 4-1-1 have just some tips on what dance steps you should avoid to at least minimize the damage. You don't have to be a talented dancer to impress you date, as long as you don't dance your way to their hearts with these killer (literally) moves.

1. The Moonwalk
Though this dance step was popular back in the 80's, just like Michael Jackson who perfected The Moonwalk, this one is so out. It may have lost it magical charisma on people at the same time Jacko started having problems with all those lawsuits. Unless you are some astronaut, don't be caught performing this move because you are a couple of steps from being the laughing stock of the crowd.

2. The Achy Breakey Line Dance
Admit it, you have performed this dance routine at least once in your life. But unfortunately, even if vintage stuffs and revivals are the thing today, there are just some things that should be left buried at the back of our heads. If you even so much try that first step for this dance, it's like having zombies walking the planet because no one definitely wants to see this redneck trend.

3. The Back Spin
Unless you're a 13-year old boy or a professional B-boy posse, you should never ever try to do this dance move. For once, this is not really the move when you are in a club trying to impress your date. Secondly, this move really didn't caught on during its time so don't even think of reviving it. And lastly, this dance move will definitely have you visiting your chiropractor.

4. Hammer Time
There are several reasons why MC Hammer is not in the music scene anymore, probably becoming one of the biggest one-hit-wonder of all-time, if not the biggest. And this dance move is one of those reasons. You getting caught doing this move is equivalent to admitting that you are one of this one-time rapping sensation's undying fan. And besides, it's hard to do this move if you are not wearing one of those oversized and and overly baggy pants.

5. The Ickey shuffle
Named after its inventor, Ickey Woods who was a running back for the Cincinnati Bengals, this dance move caught on as one of the most popular touchdown dances in the history of the sports. However, The Ickey Shuffle is best left on the gridiron being performed by football giants that are overly-charged with testosterone.

6. The Sprinkler
It's understandable to imitate moves popularized by pop stars such as Justin Timberlake, Britney Spears, even Madonna. But for crying out loud, don't even try a move that got its hype during the Stone Age, just like The Sprinker. It's so old, your grandparents may have used it to impress each other.

7. Raise the Roof
Just like the Ickey Shuffle, this dance move should also be left for athletes, this time to basketball players. And besides, this dance move didn't even get popular back in the days so don't even try putting it back to the limelight.
8. The Butter Churner
A dance move is lame if it involves mimicking actions of Amish, probably one of the most boring people you can ever meet. This monotonous maneuver is just clockwise movements of the arms, much like when you are churning butter. For that reason alone, people should just leave this move to the Pennsylvania Dutch.

9. The Dice Shaker
There are so many God-forsaken dance moves out there that are just cheesy simulated everyday moves. From Fishing Pole to Milking the Cow, and don't forget The Butter Churner, the world is just being plagued with insane dance steps. But nothing compared to the Dice Shaker. Unless you are some addicted gambler who can't stop your arms from flailing about, this one should not be introduced to the dance floor.

10. The Running Man
The mother ship have landed. This is probably the most annoying dance move anyone can ever do, which involves, well, just running. This may have been the hippest and hoppest hip hop move back in the days, but this one definitely died together with that eras so-called icons like MC Hammer and Vanilla Ice. It's coffin was sealed when a 60-year old First Lady in the form of Laura Bush performed it in front of a huge crowd. So basically, don't do it!

There you go, just some dance moves you should stay away from to assure that your night of dancing with your lover goes on smooth with no forms of embarrassment, for you and them. It doesn't matter if you don't really know how to dance, as long as you move on the dance floor and not do these lousy and lame steps.

Ways to Have an Unforgettable First Date

As we all know, the first date is a make-or-break situation. The success of the blossoming relationship strongly depends on whether the couple had a good time the first time they went out. This is also the moment where lasting impressions are made that will be the basis of a continuing partnership. That is why we here at Dating 4-1-1 thought of giving all you people a little reminder on how you can make your first date with that special someone extra romantic and unforgettable.

1. Set the date up right
An unforgettable date starts with a solid setup. So when you call up the person you wanna go out with, just fgo straight to the point and avoid stalling and delaying. Just tell them that you wanna have lunch or have drinks together. This way the other person won't think that you are some pathetic loser who have nothing better to do than to bug them. This shows them that you are a busy individual, but not too busy to get some time with them.

2. Don't be too clingy
One big mistake common on dates, especially on first dates, is that most people try too hard to impress the other person. They make such a big deal in showing their dates that their attention, time and effort are directed to them. Though this may sound sweet, not if done too much. Remember to still give them their space so they won't think once again that you are a desperate loser. Just be cool.

3. Keep your composure
Most people can't keep their composure when other people tests them. But don't ever think that when you are on a date, this is not going to happen. Because it's just a natural act for people to challenge their date's intellect or character, especially women. So just don't let the other person get you off balanced. Respond to them as fast as you can, giving them responses that will impress them of you as a person.

4. Make your move
Remember that whoever does the first move on a date will pretty much be the one who'll have control for the rest of it. So you just have to be smart in figuring out when the right moment arrives for you to make your move. Don't disappoint your date because this is probably what they are also been waiting for all night. But of course, you still have to be subtle with it because you might end up scaring them off.

5. Make it the first
The most effective way to make a lasting impression on the first date and making it special is by having a "first" on it. What do we mean, you ask? Do something that is a first for you date. This way, she'll always remember your date because it is the when she first did a particular thing.

So there you go. Good luck on going out there and grabbing that special someone for you. Just remember to always be yourself because that is the best way to actually be successful in the dating game.

How to Approach Prospective Dates Properly

I know, we are probably taking a step back here discussing this topic. But this is to be fair for those who are still on the lookout for their special someone. Come one, we've all been there. We've become intimidated by other people whom we like that made it very hard for us to talk to them, much less approach them properly. So these are just some tips that you guys should know so you can come up to that pretty lady or hunk guy with all the confidence you'll need to ask them out for a date.


Recognize when they're receptive or not
It's very important to know the signs of whether other people will entertain you once you approach them. Knowing when they are open and ready to engage in some social activities is fundamental so you don't need to waste time for people who won't even let you speak. If they are looking at you and are making eye contact, this is your chance to make your move and introduce yourself.

Keep your fear to yourself
Though being shy around other people may be cute for some, this is certainly not true when you wanna have some good time with them. So you better know your fears and keep it at a minimum when you're out for the night. Confidence is the key so throw away your shyness and be bold when approaching that man/woman you are starting to like.

Avoid hesitation moves
Just like in basketball, you should just always aim for your goal. If you think that you are going to score, just go for it. No time for hesitation because you might just miss your chance in landing a date with that pretty lady or cute guy at the bar.

Keep your cool
No one is perfect. It's a cliche, true. But there is definitely some meaning in it. So if ever you make a boo-boo while talking to that person you wanna go out with, don't panic. Just continue with what you are saying or doing and just forget about the mistake. Remember, you will not get your chance if you lose your cool. You'll just end up screwing yourself over because you kept on thinking that you are already out of the game.

Never seek their approval
Though it may seem nice to have them agree on everything you're saying and doing, this is not a requirement. If they think you're wrong, so what? Just continue and never lose your confidence. People tend to challenge people who are trying to approach them. So don't break and just show them you are one tough person.

Try different attitudes for your approaches
Be creative. Be witty. Be confident, Be casual. Be serious. Be funny. Just don't stick to one style so you can gauge whether one is more effective than the others. This way, you'll also know which suits best for different people.

So there you go! Again, let me remind you that these are not clear standards that you can use to guarantee you a date. These are just mere suggestions that can help you make your dating life easier. The best way to approach dating is still by being yourself and doing everything you think is right.

Things That Girls Should Never Ask Their Boyfriends

Okay, let's not take too much time with the introduction. We here at Dating 4-1-1 promised an article about what girls should never ask their boyfriends, well because we posted something of the same nature for the guys out there a couple of days back. So as promised, here they are:

"What are you thinking?"
This question just invokes major argument. Why? Well, because basically guys don't know how to answer this. They will think that their partners are expecting them to commend them or say something sweet to them, which just puts them out there lying their hearts out. Most men just think about sex or sports so ladies, don't expect too much if ever you do ask this question to them.

"What would you do if I died?"
The question that usually follow this one is "Will you remarry?" And if your partner is the average fellow, he probably will. You certainly don't wanna hear that because it will just break your heart. And if he did tell you that he will not, you'll just probably accuse him of being dishonest. Besides, if you guys are not yet married, asking this question is like telling them that you already wanna get married, which is the ultimate fear of most men.

"Do you love me?"
Of course, they do. Why else would they still be hanging out with you if they don't. This question just shows that you are doubting them, instead of what you plan to do which is reassuring your love for each other. Most guys just don't wanna take that direction so women should jus be satisfied that they have a man.

"Do you think she's prettier than me?"
Only ask men this question if you are ready to break up with them. This is probably the second most difficult question for them to answer, well because this is like a trick question that if they answer to no, you will think they are liars. And if they answer yes, they'll think that you will call them cheating bastards. Just don't put your partners in this situation or else just suffer the consequence of a pretty long fight.

"Do I look fat?"
Another question that is very hard for men to answer. Probably the most difficult, matter of fact. Obviously, they don't wanna hurt your feelings by calling you fat or saying that you look like a cow. But of course, you ladies want your man to be honest all the time. Because of this, many men are just confused on what is the right thing to say if this question is being asked. Do them a favor and don't put them in this kind of situation. Honestly, it could be very traumatizing.

So there you go, ladies. Just spare yourself and your partner of the petty fight that may come out because of this silly questions. As much as possible, just stir clear of this kind of interrogations so you can have a happy life, you and your boyfriends.

Things That Guys Should Never Ask Their Girlfriends

Last week, the good people of Dating 4-1-1 have listed some of the things you should never ever say to your partner to avoid any complications that could probably ruin your relationship. We certainly hope that those things did help you out and will help you out more in the time. Of course, we know that you guys still want more. So as a follow-up to that article, here is another article that will help you avoid any other unnecessary fight that may come your way. Here are some things you guys out there should never ask your girlfriends (Next post, something for the ladies.)

"Can I borrow some money?"
It may sound too cliche but it it still the common belief that the man is supposed to provide for the woman in their relationship. This is to make her feel more secure and sure about your relationship. So asking her to lend you money shatters this faith completely, especially to those women who are more dependent to their partners. This will also make her question you money sense, putting doubt in her mind about you being the strong and capable alpha-male who is supposed to have the financial responsibility in the relationship. If you are having money problems, why not just ask a buddy or get another job.

"Are you wearing that?"
There's a reason why women take so much time getting prepared when you guys are going out for a date. And that is because they are always making sure that they look good for you. This also assures them about themselves. But when you ask them this question, it's just the same as telling them that they are ugly or they don't look good at all. This question is also telling her that all her hard work in preparing for you just went down the drain. Just appreciate the fact that they took time to dress up because let's admit it, dressing up for women is a lot more difficult than for men.

"Why don't you go to the gym?"
This is a like the previous one. Asking him this question is just like telling her that she is a fat pig. And you know that no woman likes being told that she is fat. So if you ever feel that your girlfriend is gaining more weight than necessary, try telling her in a more subtle way.

"How many guys have you slept with?"
Most guys are pretty much fantasizing that their girlfriends are virginal being untouched by any form of vulgarity. But most of the time, this is not the case. And if you are a sane fellow, you will never ever think that you are your girlfriend's first-time. The same as you should never ever try to ask her how many fellows has she been with. Just be happy that you are together at the present and not go back to silly past relationships.
"Do you wanna have a threesome?"
Unless you have a girlfriend who is a nymphomaniac or a pornstar, this question should always be kept to yourself. Asking you partner to partake in your deepest sexual fantasy, no matter how dreamy and romantic you wanna put it, is always very dangerous. For one because of that green-eyed monster called jealousy. Then add to that your girlfriend wondering for the rest of your time together that she may not be enough for you that's why you're trying to add someone to your sexual relationship.

"Did you cum?"
It's a common notion that when men finish up during sex, most women may not have really started with theirs. That is why there have been so many popular consensus about women faking it to avoid hurting the ego and feelings of their partner. However, this doesn't give any man rights to ask if their partner did finish up like he did. The question just puts her in the spot and brings into question her sincerity to you. And besides, asking this question just after you guys have shared a special bond is definitely a mood killer. Just be happy that she is doing it with you and not some horny bastard out there.

"Why do you have to be such a bitch?"
This is just like saying that she is a bitch. Enough said.

So there you go. Just some of the questions no man should ask his girlfriend unless he wants to end a pretty good relationship. Next post, the list for all the ladies out there.

Things That You Should Never Say to Your Partner

Here at Dating 4-1-1, we've been telling you guys that one of the best way to impress other people is by being a great conversationalist. Knowing what to say, when to say it and how to say it are essentials in becoming a smooth talker who will get all the ladies for the guys and guys for the ladies. But of course, there are still certain things that you must stir clear to avoid any unnecessary events. As they say, there is alwasy an exception to the rule. And those exceptions are the following...

"She's/He's Hot!"
No matter what you do, never ever let your partner hear you say complimenting other people for being hot or beautiful or attractive. Though it's a normal thing to admire other people, just be sure not to be too vocal about it when in front of your lover. This is usually the cause of fights between partners and one of the main reason of relationships breaking up. If you still can't help yourself, better start looking for someone else. Or just hope that the person you referred to as hot won't mind going out with you.

"My ex would..."
Don't ever start a statement with these words, unles you want to start a big fight. Comparing you current partner to your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend is just a war waiting to happen. You lover have trusted that you have already moved on, so making any reference to your exes will just bring you back to awkward-ville, and surely you don't like that. Just remember that current relations and exes just won't mix.

"Your friend is a bitch/dick."
Never ever bad-mouht their friends, no matter how big of an asshole they really are. Those are people they trust and care about. Just assume that you too don't like your partner saying bad things about your friends, especially those who are really close to you. This is especially true with girls and their BFF.

"You bitch/dick."
If they don't like you telling bad things about their friends, they probably won't like it when you do it to them. Calling them "bitch" or "dick" or any cuss word for that matter is just not right. Not even when you are in the heat of the moment while your arte making love. Leave those kind of dirty talks to the pornstars, unless your girlfriend/boyfriend dig a little kinkiness in bed.

"I'm not good enough for you."
We've discussed ho most people admire confidence. So saying this line is just admitting to your partner that you are one big loser who should not even had the chance with them. Besides, no one likes quitters.

"If you really love me, you would..."
Saying saomething that start with these words is just a big no-no. First of all, you are giving them bad signals that you are not the one for them. Second of all, this statement just brags that you are questioning their love towards you. And finally, you are trying to make your partner do something that they really don't want to do, which in many ways tell them that you are a controlling bastard.

"You're just like your mother/father."
People love their parents, but that does not mean that they wanna be like them when they grow up. No matter what you might want to believe, no one would want to be compared to their mother or father because most children's aim in life is to be better than their parents. This statement is just saying that they failed miserably in life because you, of all the people, still thinks that they are just like their parents.

"I'm not in the mood"
Okay, this is not so much for the ladies because let's admit it, there's a double standard when it comes to bed. But for guys to say that they are not in the mood, it's just like a slap in the face of your ladylove because it is not that often that women make the first move when it comes to having sex. So turning them down on those rare situations is just a fight waiting to happen.

"I don't like that..."
No matter how hideous their stuff look to you, never ever tell your partner that you don't like it. You might get away with not complimenting their new shirt, pants or hair style, but trying to tell them that it's not good and you don't like it just gives them the signal to start shouting at you for being insensitive and being an ass.

So there you go, just some of the things you should avoid saying to your partner. And if there are instances that you are not sure what to say, just shut up and don't open your mouth to avoid hurt feelings. Silence is still golden, you know.

The Dating Ten Commandments

Though many say that there are really no clear and standard rules when it comes to dating (we here at Dating 4-1-1 believe so too), there are still somethings we can do to make sure that we have a very healthy and successful dating life. That is why we on this humble site decided to come up with the Dating Ten Commandments. And we came up with these:


1. Thou shall not talk about the exes too much.

Everybody has their own baggage that comes from several past relationships. And these baggages have no place when it comes to trying to impress another person. So just avoid talking too much about past boyfriends or girlfriends to the one your currently dating. Though you may talk about it once in a while, but that is only when you guys have already been together long.

2. Thou shall not frequent your exes.

If you're not allowed to talk about them that much, you are not also allowed to spend too much time with them. As much as you like to stay friends with your exes, this does not look good to the person you are currently dating. Unless you wanna risk being dumped and being along again.

3. Thou shall learn how to compliment.
Learn how to make the other person feel good about themselves. A little pat on the back when they did something nice, especially for you, is not half-bad. Good ol' fashion compliments are never out of style like telling your date they look good.

4. Thou shall not put your partner to the pedestal.

Though most people like the feeling that other people treat them importantly, overdoing it may also kill it. There's nothing wrong with praising and commending things that your partners have done, but never do this in such a way that you are treating them just like they are gods and goddesses. Just try to treat them like normal people. Remember: no one is perfect.

5. Thou shall not be too enthusiastic.

When we say "too enthusiastic," this include people who acts like stalkers. It's alright to be concerned on what your partner is doing at certain moments, but not every time. There's still a thin line between being caring and being too clingy. YOu don't wanna seem too pathetic also.

6. Thou shall not be too serious.

This means that when you think someone is not into you, just give up. They say that quitting is not good, but it is when it comes to dating. Especially when you see that all your efforts are just going down the drain. It'll be easy for both parties to just move on with the next thing and forget all about it.

7. Thou shall not discuss other men/women.

Jealousy the most common perpetrator of broken relationship. So just don't let this green-eyed monster get in between you and the person you are dating. Avoid talking about other people and saying good things about them.

8. Thou shall not let yourself go.

After you've been able to spend some time with someone, that does not mean that you can let your guard down. Well, you can be comfortable around them at a certain point, but not too much. Just don't forget to do stuff that can impress the other person because admit it, dating is always all about survival of the fittest. And once you let your guard down, you are dead meat.

9. Thou shall not rush into things.

Leave the "wanna go out this weekend?" and "wanna meet my parents?" lines at home especially when you are still on the start of a relationship. You are just bringing awkwardness to much greater levels and that will leave you all alone once again.

10. Thou shall not lose faith.

Faith on whom? Well, yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always have yourself to fall back into. And besides, if you don't believe that you can find that one special person, you will not. So just continue on dating and never quit until you meet the right one for you.

Signs That You Should Move On

One important lesson every person should learn about dating: when it seems that things are not working out, it's time to bail out. This is to avoid any more wasted time, money and effort. And of course, hurt feelings. But you're probably asking right now how would you know when to bail out. When is the right time that you should call it quits with the person you're dating just because it won't go anywhere? Is there any signs that can tell you to just quit and move on the next person? Well, there are. And here they are...

Invitation declined. This is a clear sign that a person is not that interested in you. If a person keeps on turning down your offer for a cup of coffee or a dinner, eh or she probably is not into you. Especially if it's already the millionth time you ask and they are still saying no.

No friend introduction. One way to see if a relationship is moving forward is through something called comfort zone. And one perk of being in this zone is getting to meet the other person's friends, if not their family. But if you guys have already gone out for a whole month, without him or her saying anything about meeting their friends, my friend, it's time to bail out. This is especially true in cases that you yourself keep on bugging you partner about doing something with his or her friend but he or she always find a way not to go with it.

Always with friends. This is the exact opposite of the above point. Though meeting your partners friends is good, having them always around like bodyguards during dates and what nots, is also a bad sign. This just goes to show that the person does not want to spend time with you alone and they have no interest in you in any way. But you certainly can be friends.

Talking about other people. If your boyfriend keeps on talking about that hot chick she saw or your girlfriend always telling you how she have this huge crush on a guy at work, just take it as a signal that they are no longer interested in you. This is actually a pretty clear sign, and only pathetic losers, or blind and deaf people, won't get.

Avoiding intimate settings. Okay, you may had the chance to bring the person to a dinner or a movie, but when you tried asking her to go away for the weekend or something more intimate, he or she always find an excuse not to come, better say bye-bye as soon as possible. This just goes to show that the other person is not ready for something deeper and more serious. And if you're the person who wants security, then better bail out when this sign comes up.

No physical contact. This includes hand touching, peck on the chick and other small gestures. If you are not getting these stuff, you probably won't have any chance getting more.

Playing cupid. If the person you're dating keeps on setting you up with other people, that just mean that they are not into you. This is especially true with girls. So guys, if the person you are having an interest to keeps on introducing you to her friend and setting you up on dates, the best thing to do is just go on those dates and forget about her.

No call back. The most blatant sign of all. If the person does not return your call, it's pretty obvious that it's time for goodbye.

This may sound too familiar, but it's true that there are millions of people out there that are probably more suitable to you. Don't waste time and effort on someone who is not really into you. So if you see these signs on the people you are interested on or dating at the moment, it is just about time to bail out and move on to the next thing.

Be A Multilingual Romantic

There is still a bit of a dispute about which is the universal language, music or love. But because this is Dating 4-1-1 and people here are just bunch of hopeless romantic, we would like to believe that it's love. But even though you have this emotion inside you that can drive you to do things you don't normally do with strange people, you still have to break the language barrier especially when you're in a far, far place. So here are just some love phrase, that can help you speak out the language of love no matter what part of the world you're in.

In Spanish

I love you
Te quiero Te amo

Kisses are the unspoken words of love
Siano i baci le parole d'amore che non ti dico

I am in love
Estoy enamorado/ estoy enamorada

I miss you
Te echo de menos

I adore you passionately
Te adoro apasionadamente

I love you with all my heart
Te quiero con todo mi corazón

Love me or I shall die!
¡Quiéreme o me muero!

I can't live without you
No puedo vivir sin ti

I want to be with you forever
Quiero estar contigo para siempre

I love you more than yesterday, but not as much as tomorrow
Cada día te quiero más que ayer y menos que mañana
In French

I love You
Je t'aime

I adore you
Je t'adore

You are the joy of my life
Tu es ma joie de vivre

You are my love
Tu es mon mon amour

My love for you is eternal
Mon amour pour toi est éternel

My love for you is as grand as the world
Mon amour pour toi est si grand que le Mond

You are my love
Tu es mon mon amour

Kisses are the unspoken words of love
Que mes baisers soient les mots d'amour que je ne te dis pas

I dream about Your eyes day and night
Tes yeux, j'en reve jour et nuit

I miss you
Tu me manques

In Polish

I love you
Kocham cię

I like you
Lubie cię

People were created because of love and to love
Czlowiek stworzony jest z milości i do milości

Love is a wonder wich can happen again
Milosc to cud, który zawsze może się znów zdarzyć
Don’t talk, just kiss
Milcz i całuj

Love is a happiness
Milość sama w sobie jest szczęściem
You would never love like before
Nie kocha się nigdy jak przedtem

I think about you
Myślę o Tobie

I was dreaming about you last night
Śniłaś mi się tej nocy

I don’t want to lose you
Nie chcę Cię stracić

In Italian

I love you
Ti amo

You are a star...my star
Tu sei una stella...la mia stella

I am falling in love with you
Sto cadendo nell'amore con voi

I can't live without you
Non posso vivere senza voi

My heart is for you
Il mio cuore è per voi

I like you more and more
Gradisco voi di più e più

I love you with all my heart
Ti amo con tutta l'anima

I miss you
Mi manchi

You're my soulmate
Sei la mia anima gemella

I want to spend the rest of my life with you
Voglio passare il resto della mia vita con te

In Japanese

I love you
Watashi wa anata ga suki desu

I need you
Anata ga hitsuyou desu
I miss you
Anata ga inakute samishii

Love needs no teaching
Koi ni shishou nashi

Love makes all men equal
Koi ni jouge no hedate nashi

Love is without reason
Koi wa shian no hoka

Love is blind
Koi wa moumoku

Love becomes deep easily, but cools down soon
Koi wa nesshi yasuku same yasui
You are an angel
Anata wa tenshi no yoo desu
You have beautiful eyes
Kirei-na hitomidane

In Filipino

I love you
Mahal kita

You are dear to me
Mahal ka sa akin

I want to spend the rest of my life with you
Gusto kitang makasama habang buhay
I want to marry you
Gusto na kitang pakasalan

You are an angel
Ikaw ay isang anghel

You are the only one I will love forever
Ikaw lamang ang aking iibigin magpakailanman

I love you truly
Ang pag-ibig ko sa iyo ay tunay
I'll take care of you
Aalagaan kita

I won't neglect you
Hindi kita pababayaan

I'll die without you
Mamamatay ako kung wala ka

There you go. You now have the tools to be a multilingual lover. All we can say here at Dating 4-1-1 is, GO GET THEM TIGER!!!

Be Funny, Get a Date

Humor, to some people, is probably that sixth sense only a chosen few has. And for some people, humor is the most effective way how to communicate with others, especially on those first-meeting instances. That is why humor is such an effective tool in attracting other people, may it be for something platonic or something deeper than friendship. I bet you, especially the guys out there, have had experiences wherein a someone you know includes humor as one of the characteristic they are looking for people they wanna meet. But even though only a selected few are born with this gift, you should not fret because there are ways how to learn this craft. So here are some ways on how you can use humor to your advantage during those times you wanna impress or attract other people.

Create suspense, then go for the kill. By pausing when the other person is trying to ask a serious question, you can manage to create suspense and at the same time, put the other person in a spot where they can be excited. And when they are starting to look like a kid staring at his gift on a Christmas morning, give a smart-ass answer still maintaining that poker-face seriousness. Now you're broken the ice and no more awkwardness to follow.

Use some playful sexual misinterpretation. There are many words and phrases that you can use this tactic with. For example is when your date says "Mmm, you know, I think it might be time to go home," answer by carefully muttering this phrase "I’ve only been talking to you for 15 minutes; I’m not going home with you." Try it, and they will find you adorable.

Mimicry is flattery. Try copying what your date is doing, but in a funny way. This way, you can actually make them ease up and relax because that is what you want for yourself, a hassle-free get-together. Like when you notice her being uncomfortable because she is so rigid when seated, you can pull your shoulder way back, sit up extra straight and then say "I really think you should work on your posture."

Honest, playful swatting. Now this does not mean that you'll go dominatrix on your date. Just pick up something, say a napkin, and playfully hit the other person with it, like when they say something funny. This tells your date that you are already comfortable with them. This also shows them your childish side, which is very attractive to most people.

Joking with compliments. Give you date a compliment, but with a twist. Say you notice their shoes, you can just go "I really think you should work on your posture." This is a guaranteed ball-buster.

Don't back down. If you really wanna use humor as your weapon in attracting people, you should never crack down from the act. As long as you know that you are not getting too annoying, just continue being the funny one unlike you crack your date up. if you quit, it will just show your date that you aren't serious with them. And besides, most people also tend to block funny people at first to see if they are just trying to be funny and not be funny at all.

So there, just some tips to help you realize that being a clown sometimes can give you good points when it comes to dating. But again, remember to just always be yourself as much as possible and avoid being someone you are not. This will definitely show and you don't wanna be caught red-handed while you're at it. Happy dating!

Effective Ways to Attract Men

Okay, last time we posted some tips for the guys out there so they would know what to do so they can attract women they like. So we thought of coming up with another post, this time giving out some helping hand to those ladies who might need some guide with hooking a guy for themselves. So for the nature of being fair, we have here effective ways for women to attract men.

Be confident of yourself. And this includes being confident about your physical appearance. Looks may be the first thing a guy would notice, but you should also be able to carry yourself. You might not be the supermodel most men desire, but there are still guys out there who are looking for the plain Jane who has the confidence needed to survive the real world.

Be beautiful, but don't overdo it. There is absolutely no need for you girls to look like a bimbo just to impress a guy. What most men, at least those that are of the decent kind, are looking for women with personality. But a little powder and lip gloss ain't that bad. The key: just look presentable and clean in front of them and they'll all be gawking after you.

Be happy. Happy women attracts men. In fact, they attract just about anything that is good. Well, imagine yourself being a guy and you see and girl all sad and lonely. You definitely don't have time for her. Looking like a pathetic mess ain't just cut it if you wanna have guys swarming all over you. Smile, a simple act like that can go for miles.

Be the master of body talk. Body language is one of the most effective way women can lure men into them. The first thing to remember is to make yourself approachable. How do you do that? Don't take a lot of space. Then after these, just follow your instinct and be sexy and confident enough, at the same time not being trashy.

Be yourself. No person like people who are pretentious, in any way. So don't try to be someone who you aren't. Just act normal around guys and let them fall for the real you. You don't have to make too much of an effort to lure them in if you are just being true to yourself.

So there you have it, some ways to effectively snatch that guy you have always been dreaming of. Remember, and we here at Dating 4-1-1 always say this, that these are just tips and suggestions. Dating is a fun experience and all you people should just enjoy it and do whatever you think is fun and right.

Effective Ways to Attract Women

Though there are lucky bastards out there who seems to have what it takes to always get the ladies, normals guys like us can still manage to snatch the big one for us if we only know what to do. And no, I'm not talking about silly pick-up lines this time. These are just some tips on how to attract the opposite sex for helpless romantic guys out there.

Be a master in communication. Women dig real men, those who are strong, independent and sure of himself - but not too much. That is why a good man should always know how to show these assets to women and the best way to do it is by communicating. Just look at the roster of romantic men in history and you'll see that many of them are guys who know how to use language to their advantage.

Always be certain. A strong guy should always be sure of himself. That is why men should just avoid being a wussbag and always be certain about things he is saying, doing and even thinking. And strong grip can also go along way when trying to impress the ladies.
Avoid being too emotional. Again, strong men attracts the most women. That is why being a crybaby is definitely a no-no when it comes to trying impress them. So avoid reliving your emotional past because you will just sound pathetic in front of the person you are trying to impress.

Know your strength and weaknesses. And just basically work this angle to your advantage to let the ladies see how perfect of a guy you are for them.
Learn how to plan. You've all probably heard women saying that they would rather be with guys who have dreams rather than being stuck with a pathetic low-life like you. Why not stop being a child and grow up and start making plans for your future.

Commit, commit, commit. It may sound scary, but if you're really sure that this is what you want, you guys better learn how to commit to this goal and do whatever you can to achieve it.

So there you go? Just remember that the dating scene out there is one heck of a jungle. That is why you should always know what you're getting into because in relationships, there is simply no turning back.

Worst First Date Location

Okay, you're right. The success of a date, specifically the first date, is all about chemistry, connection and good conversation. Making sure that your date like you and you like them is just about what dates are all about. But sometimes, well actually more often than not, being where are and what you are doing also do big when it comes to having big points on dates. Well, we here at Dating 4-1-1 having given you ideas on where and what to do on your first date. So now, how about we give each and every one of your romantic lovers a warning on where not to be during your first date. Ladies and gentlemen, here are some of the worst date location you people don't wanna be in...

His or her parent's house. Dating, as we all know it, should be done in slow steps toward progression. And meeting the parents is definitely not among those things you wanna do first. So just avoid dates involving you or your date's parents because it is just not the time for that.
A family function. Again, succession and patience is the key. And if either of you don't wanna meet the parents, that also goes with anyone of your relatives. That's why family gatherings, reunions and parties are just no-no's when it comes with the first date. You don't wanna let your date meet your annoying aunts and nephews the same day you are trying to impress him/her, don't you?
A non-traditional restaurant. It's alright to go adventurous when going out on dates. But not to the extent that you'll try eating something that you don't really have clue of what it is. SO just stay away from food joints that serves food that you and your date haven't tried out before. You don't wanna remember your first date by the fact that one of your kept on throwing up or taking trips to the bathroom...

Arcades. Being young is good, even if it's only being young at heart. But being childish? That's a different situation altogether. If you're a teenage boy trying to impress your crush, maybe this is a good idea. But if you're already a grown-up guy who is making your own money already, aside from this date being completely stupid, it will just send signals to your date that you are a cheap bastard.

Fastfood joints. Come on, it's your first date with a person you wanna impress. Taking him/her to a fastfood restaurant like McDonalds or Burger King is just pathetic and way cheap. Why not just take them to Chucky Cheese and forget about that second date?
A hotel or a motel. Unless you're some big-time rockstar, you cannot take your date to your hotel or motel room. Aside from giving them an impression that you are some twisted, horny pervert, it is just not cool having your first date with a total stranger in a room with a bed in it.

Shopping malls. This is a shout out to all the ladies. Not all guys like walking through every stores and bringing your things. In fact, most guys just hates shopping. So don't expect your date to have fun because being your shopping buddy on the first date is just not that fun.

The movies. Well, this is kinda tricky actually. But as we all know, first dates are all about getting to know each other. So how would you guys do that when you're trying to watch some movie for two hours? Ummm... NEVER!

Again, these things are just suggestions and ideas. Just always remember that dating is not a clear science and there are really no strict rules to be followed. Just learn to have fun and appreciate the person you're with, and you're surely not gonna go wrong on any dates.

First Date Ideas

Okay, after countless hours with flirting and trying to pickup a date on bars, restaurants, coffee houses and malls, you finally got that elusive date with a person you think would likely become a long-time partner. But now, the big question in mind: What kind of date should you bring him/her to? There are so many activities that you can think of that you two can do together. But be careful, because some of them may actually have you crawling back to your very own loner's cave because you turned off your date. That is why we have here some great ideas for our first date with that lucky heart you have just reeled in. Try these first date ideas to be able to impress your future lover, and at the same time know more about him/her to make sure he/she is no some kind of creep.

Go to an amusement park. Okay, this date might be a bit expensive for the first one. But this way you can show your date that you are no cheap bastard and is willing to shell out some money for him/her. Nice way to impress someone, especially the ladies. Also, when you guys are waiting in line to ride the roller coaster, you can pass time by having a great conversation. This way you get to know more about your date which shows that you are really interested on them. And admit it, there is still that kid inside you who wants the thrill of riding amusement rides.

Attend a fair or a festival. It's a lot of fun being in fairs and festivals. There are tons of activities you guys can try out - from pie eating contest to playing parlor games and riding the ferris wheel. If you're a guy, you can also impress your lady friend by trying to win a stuff toy for her in one of those games where you hit a target or shoot a ball through a hoop. This date will have you showing your sensitive and manly side both at the same time.

Play some kind of sports together. It can be billiards, bowling, badminton or even mini-golf. This way you can impress your date with your baller skills, at the same time still having a meaningful conversation with each other. And there is nothing that can make two people a lot closer by having fun together.

Do something artsy. Why not go to one of those pottery shop where you can paint the pots and vase. This way, you both can enjoy an activity together that you can do while talking and getting to know each other. This way, you can also impress your date by showing your artistic side. This is something both men and women find attractive.

Be one with nature. You guys can go hiking, or even walking along the nearest park. Or maybe go to a zoo, an aquarium or an aviary. While checking out the beauty of the environment and discovering the magical wonder that is Mother Nature, you guys can be closer by having a meaningful conversation to get to know each other better.

So there you go. These are just some ideas for what you guys can do when going out for your first date. You can also come up with something more unique and more fun. Just remember that the key to a nice first date is that you guys should have time to talk to each other to get to know each other. And of course, both of you should have lots of fun.

Most Common Date Mishaps, and How to Avoid Them

Dating is hard work, we all know that. That is why all of us just needs every little help we could get, especially when it comes to not being a complete idiot when out on a nice night-out with a beautiful lady or a handsome bloke. But as much as we planned everything that will happen during a romantic dinner date, there are still thing that could go wrong. Maybe it's because the dating gods and goddesses just wanna test us or just wanna have fun in our expense. But no matter what it is, we should always handle every situation like seasoned veteran so we don't make fools of ourselves in front of the people we so badly want to impress. So here are just some date mishaps that could happen and ways you can get out of them.

1. The Spray. The saying "Say it, don't spray it" pretty much is always the rule when you are out on a date. But we all know that it can happen to anyone, even the most classy and poised individual out there. So when this happen, casually wipe the area where the "rain" fell. If in case there are bits of food that was part of the "downfall," pick them up without your date noticing it. But if it's too noticeable already, just laugh and shrug the situation and don't make a big deal out of it. You can apologize for it, but not too much.

2. The Whole Tooth. You're eating and you just can't stop enjoying the delicious food, especially you are with someone you like so much. And all of a sudden, your date tells you that you have something stuck between your teeth. It could be poppy seeds, lettuce, meat or spinach, but you can still get away with your dignity even after a mishap like this. Just smile and excuse yourself so you can remove it. Just don't do it in front of your date and you're all good. Just get up and go to the bathroom and clean your teeth there.

3. The Spaz. This situation is a bit tricky. Because you are on dinner and eating some food, probably something with sauce can spill, or maybe wine, there is always an instance that it will spill on you. So if this happen, act out innocent but just smiling and maybe saying "whoops!" This way, your date may actually find you cute. But of course after that, you need to clean up the mess by using a napkin to wipe out the damaged area. If ever you need more time with it, just excuse yourself and go to the bathroom and do the scrubbing there. Just don't take too long of a time.

4. The Drop Out. Food are not the only thing that can fall down. Utensils may also end up leaving the table and down on the floor. If this happen, don't you pick that spoon or fork up. Instead, call a waiter and tell him what happened. He'll be the one who'll take care of your dilemma by handing you another utensil.

5. The Food Face. Delicious food, nice ambiance and a romantic set-up - you will surely get carried away with eating so food may end up in your face. So if that happens, just wipe it off gently. If in case it is your date you noticed it and told you about it, just smile or laugh a little, wipe that food off your face and say thank you. Just don't make a big deal about it and go on with your wonderful date.

So there you go. A list of some of the most common date mishaps. They may be little and simple by nature, but they can really ruin a date when not handled very gracefully and carefully. Just follow these simple advice and you're on your way to that elusive next date.

Tips for a Romantic Date Movie

One of the best way to spend a date, especially the second or third date, is by going out and watching a movie. But just like any part of dating, this one can also be tricky and nasty when not done right. That is why we are once again here to give you some tips and suggestion on how to go about with your date movie with your special someone. We will also provide with with some romantic movie options that will surely have you partner squirming in love with you. Get your pen and paper and let's begin.

1. Asking the other person to go out on a movie date should be casual. Maybe bring it up while you guys are talking about something on the phone. Never ever demand.

2. You guys can just meet in the movie house. But if you're the guy, it is better to pick your date up form her house. Maybe bring some flowers to impress her and how that you are a romantic person.

3. In picking the movie, let your date think of something you guys can watch. Then casually suggest something that you think that would be great for you that. Something that the both of you can enjoy. None of those movies with gores and too much violent. And don't even start with sexually-oriented movies bordering pornography.

4. Before entering the theater, ask your date if they wanna bring something to eat inside the movies. Popcorn and soda are the classic, so just stick to them. Don't ever try bringing something that you guys have to eat with spoons and forks.

5. Be quiet inside the movie house. You guys are watching a movie. Leave the talking for later on if you guys decided to have something to eat.

6. Avoid unnecessary touchings, especially if you're the guy. You don't want your date screaming and running to the police station to have you arrested for sexual harassment. But if in case you date wanna do something naughty, keep it mellow. You guys are still in a public place, not a hotel room.

7. After the movie, thank your date and tell them you had a nice time. Casually drop the issue of you guys having another date soon.

So there you go. Now you know what to do and what not to do when going out for a movie with your partner. Remember that these are just suggestions. These may or may not work depending on the situation. The best thing for you to do is just be yourself and stick to your guts when going out on dates. And to end this little piece, here are some romantic movie suggestions you guys can try out to maybe score more points. Impress your date by showing them you are one helpless romantic with these blockbusters for lovers.

Sleepless in Seattle (1993)
City of Angels (1998)
A Clockwork Orange (1971)
The Notebook (2004)
Ghost (1990)
Dirty Dancing (1987)
Gone with the Wind (1939)
Romeo and Juliet (1996)
Titanic (1997)
Love Actually (2003)
Notting Hill (1999)
Shakespeare in Love (1998)
Casablanca (1942)
When Harry Met Sally (1989)

Online Dating Safety Tips

I know dating has been one hell of a task for all of us. Dating etiquette, dating rules, dating do's and don't's - they may all seem lot of work but knowing all of them will save everyone of us lots of tears and blood when it comes to dating heartbreaks. But with the super-fast growth of technology, especially with IT and the Internet, there is one more thing daters out there should take into consideration. Dating becomes more complicated as online dating blossoms from out of nowhere. But don't worry, we here at Dating 4-1-1 still have everything on control as we give you some of online dating do's and don't's. By just following these tips, you'll probably have more luck with scoring a decent relationship. Or else you'll just end up crying once again. Or worse, being a victim of online scammers.

Choose the proper username. Your username will be your moniker you whole Net life. Unless you're some scammer out for a kill, then you should just stick to one username. Also remember that everybody who sees your username, no matter if its on chat sites, forum and other personal sites, will associate it to your personality. So using suggestive names like "sexybabe69" or "wellhung_guy" is just like asking for trouble. Be more wholesome with your choice of username.

Guard personal information. Never ever give out to strangers important details about you and your life. Maybe you can give them your real first name, sex, age, location - simple stuff. But never ever give out social security numbers, address, credit card information and any information that may lead to identity fraud. C'mon, there's a reason why our mothers always tell us not to talk to strangers.

Check for honesty. Ask for previous relationships. You don't want to be a third-party in some married couple life. Make sure that you get the details of it from the person you are planning to date.

Exchange photos. This can be done even at the start of your online relationship. But this is a must when you guys decide to meet up personally for the first time. You don't wanna guess whom you are meeting just when you're already at the place.

Arrange personal meeting ahead of schedule. Do it maybe a week or two before the actual date. This way you'll be able to be ready for the big day. The tips on first dates also apply here.

Meet in a public place. This is to make sure that you will be safe even if you're meeting with a total stranger. Be sure that there are lots of people wherever you guys go to avoid being a tight situation you don't wanna be in.

Don't drink too much alcohol. Remember, being drunk will affect and cloud your judgment. And you don't wanna be vulnerable when with someone you just met. And you definitely don't wanna look like a drunken mess with the person who you are wishing will be the right one for you.

Always be alert. Falling head-over-heels is not that suited with situation like this. Though the person you are dating is the most romantic person you've ever met, this doesn't mean you're already out of the loop. Just put in mind people being victimized by abductors who are like Shakespeare when they talk.

Exchange cellphone number. You'll probably wanna go on another date if everything went to their right places on your first date. But that doesn't mean you should lose your composure. You can give out your number as long as its your cellphone and not your home phone number. This is safer because they will not be able to track you down if they turned out to be crazy freaks.

Never let your date take you home. You don't want them tracking you down by not giving them your home phone number. So it's just stupid to let them know where you're living.

So there you go, some tips to keep your online dating smooth and safe. Online dating, as many of you know, is a very risky way to find your partner. But with the right knowledge, it can be one rollercoaster ride full of fun and surprises. Go logon now to your favorite dating site and start looking for that right person for you.

The Most Romantic Date Spots

One of the most important element in dating is the place. May it be a classy restaurant, in the woods or inside a limo, the romantic ambiance of the location will be a make-or-break factor if you continue with your road for love. That is why I decided to give you some tips on where to go for the most romantic date you'll ever have in your life. It might cost us all a hole in our pockets, but going in some of these love destination will assure everyone that they will truly live a life happily ever after. Just like what happens on fairy tales...

Tokyo, Japan. Call for a reservation for two at the New York Grill at the Park Hyatt in Tokyo, located at the heart of Shinjuku. Relive all the magical and romantic scenes from the movie Lost in Translation which was filmed at this exact location. This restaurant has been a favorite among men when they want to propose to their women, and not just Japanese men but just about every romantics out there.

Sydney, Australia. Many people say that when you are in Australia, you just have to go to the Sydney Opera House. Well, that is right. Especially if you are in the area around New Year's and you're with your lover. There is nothing more magical than watching the famed New York firework display from inside Opera House.

Phuket, Thailand. If you want to live like royalty, why not book a room for you and your lover in one of Phuket's exclusive hotel resorts. Get back with nature as you soak yourself in this paradise, at the same time soak your aching bodies in the cold sea.

Prague, Czech Republic. A date in Prague will be like a blast from the past. Go on romantic walks with your lover along the historical trails of this city, while admiring all the wonderful architecture and artworks. Then cap off the night by having a romantic dinner full of delicious food inside real-life castles.

Agra, India. There is nothing like waking up in one of the best hotels in the world, the exclusive Oberoi Amarvilas Hotel in Agra, India and experiencing a breathtaking view of one of the most famous landmark dedicated to love, the Taj Mahal. With its Moorish and Mughal-inspired architecture, you yourself would want to spend you the rest of your life with your lover, and maybe until after death.

Cairo, Egypt. Be astounded as you admire the Great Pyramids of Giza. Cairo truly is a paradise on Earth with its beauty, elegance and charm, perfect for hopeless romantics like us.

New York, USA. Though you've been hearing all the bad things about this city, a night at New York is still a great idea for lovers seeking an escape from real life. With a wide array of restaurants to choose from and activities to do, being at the Big Apple will truly stick to the hearts of all lovers alike. And you just gotta try the carriage ride around Central Park.

Vienna, Austria. There is a reason why Mozart loved this city. Vienna is one of the most historic cities in the Old Continent, it is very rich in culture and the arts, which is a perfect and classy setting for bringing a relationship to the next level.

Venice, Italy. Imagine yourself riding a gondola with your ladylove, the sound music in the background as you two takes a journey around this historic city. For this reason alone, every couple should be able to experience what Venice love really feels like.

Paris, France. Though it may sound like a cliche, Paris is still the most romantic place in the world. There's a reason why many people fly to this beautiful city, and one of them is the Eiffel Tower. So do we really need any more reason?

So there you go. These are just some of the romantic places in the world where you can have that needed boost to your relationships. But always remember, it is still how you feel that matters when it comes to relationship. You may be stuck in the most romantic spot in the world. But if you don't even like who you're with, it will still be a complete waste.