Effective Ways to Attract Women

Though there are lucky bastards out there who seems to have what it takes to always get the ladies, normals guys like us can still manage to snatch the big one for us if we only know what to do. And no, I'm not talking about silly pick-up lines this time. These are just some tips on how to attract the opposite sex for helpless romantic guys out there.

Be a master in communication. Women dig real men, those who are strong, independent and sure of himself - but not too much. That is why a good man should always know how to show these assets to women and the best way to do it is by communicating. Just look at the roster of romantic men in history and you'll see that many of them are guys who know how to use language to their advantage.

Always be certain. A strong guy should always be sure of himself. That is why men should just avoid being a wussbag and always be certain about things he is saying, doing and even thinking. And strong grip can also go along way when trying to impress the ladies.
Avoid being too emotional. Again, strong men attracts the most women. That is why being a crybaby is definitely a no-no when it comes to trying impress them. So avoid reliving your emotional past because you will just sound pathetic in front of the person you are trying to impress.

Know your strength and weaknesses. And just basically work this angle to your advantage to let the ladies see how perfect of a guy you are for them.
Learn how to plan. You've all probably heard women saying that they would rather be with guys who have dreams rather than being stuck with a pathetic low-life like you. Why not stop being a child and grow up and start making plans for your future.

Commit, commit, commit. It may sound scary, but if you're really sure that this is what you want, you guys better learn how to commit to this goal and do whatever you can to achieve it.

So there you go? Just remember that the dating scene out there is one heck of a jungle. That is why you should always know what you're getting into because in relationships, there is simply no turning back.

Dating Ain't Hard As You Thought It Can Be

There is really nothing wrong believing the saying "there is always an exception to every rule." But still, having guidelines and standards won't hurt either. That goes to everything we do as individual and as a part of a society. And that also goes true when it comes to dating.

I know, there really is not magic formula as to become a dating monger. Every case vary, which actually gives it a thrill. Not knowing what will happen still makes dating a lot of fun. But that is if you know what you are doing. That is why I thought that I can give everyone out there some tips when it comes to being better in the dating game.


Be prepared. We've heard it a million of times. Never go to battle unprepared or you're just asking to be killed. If you want to be successful in going out on dates, you should be decided on who you are looking for. Do your research - what you like, what type of person are you willing to meet, etc. You should also be committed when you decide to start dating again. Or else, if you are half-hearted about it, you might as well just sit back home and watch TV rather than getting rejected every time.

Be the best that you can be. This goes with your appearance. It may be wrong and shallow to say, but having that lasting first impression is key when it comes to dating. And of course, how else can you expect to have a good first impression if you don't look good. Why not begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Maybe get a hair cut that suits you best. You should also go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes. As they say, looking good id not a crime.

Have dating goals and timescales. This is just like every task and project you have, either in work, at home or in life. Be sure what you really want and when you want it. Do you see yourself getting married in a couple of years? Then you better approach dating more accordingly. If you just wanna meet people, then be more laid back and cool about how you go out on dates.

Choose wisely. This means that you should go for those people you have a good chance of dating. Don't aim too low, but not too high. Just be realistic when making your choice for your dates. You don't wanna end up being stuck with someone you don't like, as much as you don't wanna be hurt after being rejected, right?

Know your local dating scene. This is crucial. Just knowing what to do on dates is not enough because you certainly need to know where you can go out on dates, and get the dates themselves. Do your homework and find out where you can likely to meet people like clubs, societies, sports events and other venues. You will not meet people by just staying indoors.

Take a break from dating once in a while. If you feel that the dating scene is being cruel on you, just take some time off and focus your attention on something else, like maybe work or studies. Dating is just like a ball game. You still need some rest to refresh yourself so that you can recharge your confidence and keep your optimism levels high. Remember, dates for you won't run out, but it can sure get tired of you.

Just enjoy dating. You are going out because you wanna have fun. Take it seriously, but never make it your life. If you feel like dating is taking a toll on you and being a burden for you, it is the time to just back off.

Don't make yourself too available. It may be a cliche but almost all people still wants some mystery and enigma. The thrill of the chase when dating still puts more fun to it. Besides, putting out so much will just show people that you are cheap and not the one to be taken seriously

So there you go. Just follow these simple tips and give your dating life a bit of a boost. These things are just opinions and are not guaranteed to have 100% effectivity, but there is no harm in trying them.

Do's and Dont's for Your First Date

Everybody knows that the dating scene out there is such a "dog eat dog world." That is why I believe that everyone just needs all the help they can get when they do find someone that would go out with them.

Convincing another person to go out with may sound like the hardest part. But think again. There is providing that lasting first impression to your date, which is probably the most critical part of them all. What to do on that first night out? What thing should you avoid to turn your date off? Well, let's answer those questions and more so all you daters can go out there and be the master of your craft.

Do's

1. Be on time. As they say, the early bird catches the worm. Punctuality is one key to show your date that you are a responsible individual and you give them importance.

2. Make your partner feel comfortable. If you're the guy, be a gentleman to your date as much as possible. They may say that chivalry have died, but a good gentleman can always get the ladies. For the gals our there, just don't make your date feel like he's under the knife and every wrong move he does will be the end of it for him. In short, make the date as fun as possible.

3. Keep the conversation flows going. Be the true master of linguistics. But you don't have to know many languages and dialects either. Just be able to come up with stuff you guys can talk about. Or if your date is trying to tell you something, a story perhaps, make sure that you listen intently so you can follow-up on his/her stories, maybe something related to theirs.

4. Be an interesting date. Try to prove to your date that you are worth their time for going out. Let them know what skills and talents you have. Or maybe what stuff you like doing that will set you off something more than a couch potato or a lazy bastard. Again, being a good conversationalist will be in hand for this one.

5. Laugh at their jokes. Their jokes may not be funny, but you still have to give them credit for trying to lake you laugh. If you can't laugh, maybe just a smile will do. But don't overdo it either. Don't let your date know that you are getting bored with his/her jokes by just pretending to laugh at them.

6. Talk about their interests also. The date is not just about you.

7. Be a romantic. Everybody is such a sucker for romance, so this is one thing you should be able to play to your advantage. Just don't overdo it.

8. Be confident. Again, not too much. Or you probably end up being a airhead resulting to your date getting fed up with you.

9. Be yourself. Being someone else other than yourself will definitely blow up in your face. First impressions are important, so trying to put your better foot in front is good. But don't ever pretend that you are someone else just because you wanna impress your date.

Dont's

1. Be late. Or else your date will just get up and leave.

2. Talk about yourself all night. Because you are not the only person on this date. And in the whole world for that matter.

3. Ask too many questions. Be interested on your date, but don't overdo it. Or you'll just sound like a freaking stalker or something.

4. Try to be something you are not. Because you are just going to make a fool out of yourself.

5. Talk about an ex-relationship all night. This is probably the biggest mistake you can do. No one likes hearing tales about a former partner, especially on the first date. It's a big insult and will just result to a few awkward moments.

6. Eat with your mouth open. You are not a lion, a tiger or a pig. Be polite.

7. Forget to thank them for the date. Or you probably won't get to the second date.

8. Pursue sex after your partner has said no. This will just put you in a situation where you're date will think you are some kind of a pervert or a nymphomaniac.

9. Propose marriage or kids. Not even people who have long relationship do this. So why would you on the first date.

So there you have it. Good luck and happy dating!