Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

Monday, July 28, 2008

Healthy Date Tips for the Health-Conscious

Are you the kind of health-buff who always see to it that everything you do should be at par to your dietary and health regiment? And is this healthy lifestyle the reason why you don't do out much on dates because dates are always full of food, booze and sitting around that is not really parts of your routine? Well, here are some fit date ideas that will not only have you keep your healthy living but also have you start an even healthier social life:

1. Rock Climbing
This activity may actually have been made for couples. First, it involves trust, which is pretty much the most important thing when it comes to relationship. Rock climbing will also allow you to get touchy with your date, especially if at least one of you is a first-timer in this activity.

2. Hiking
We've been insisting here at Dating 4-1-1 that dates should be done somewhere the both of you can talk and get to know each other. With hiking, you can do this at the same time burn some calories in the process. Match this with fresh air and stunning scenery, you get a very unique romantic date both of you definitely will remember for a long time.

3. Frisbee
The joys of a Frisbee date are threefold: First, anyone can do it. Second, it's free. Third, it will put her in a playful, frolicsome mood. Need I say more?

4. Yoga
Yoga may not be the most macho of activities a guy wants, but hey, it's something both of you can try for the first time and learn together. It's a sure fired way to have you guys earning good points as your lady dates will think of you as the sweet, sensitive guy they have been looking for. For the girls, you can show to the guys just how limber and flexible you are, showing to your date how sexy you can get. They will surely be drooling over you in no time. Win-win situation no matter which side you're playing for.

5. Kayaking
Could anything be more romantic than paddling through the open water next with your date? None! But just remember to pick a scenic locale that is not too rough for the both of you, especially if neither of you haven't tried this sport in the past. This activity will also have you seeing your date and their body clad only on their sexiest wetsuits.

6. Ice Skating
This activity is the stuff used on romantic movies. And there's a reason why. Helping your date to tie their laces starts off this date. Then imagine the both of you being in a chilly state and surely, one of you will be reaching out the other's hand for guidance and warmth.

7. Batting Cage
It doesn't matter if you're no Barry Bonds or Mark McGwire, going to the batting cage and teaching your lady friend the basics of America's favorite pasttime will surely have you earning much needed points. This date will surely be something new to most girls as baseball is not common sports for women.

8. Mountain Biking
Just like hiking, this activity will let you and your date talk and get to know each other. And for dates, that is exactly what you're looking for. Just don't get too serious with the biking part though and leave your date on the trail all alone.

9. Driving Range
Just like being in the batting cage. Only difference, a club as the bat and it's called golf.

10. Dancing
Really self-explanatory. You've seen it in movies and you know just how romantic times on the dance floor can be. So why not try it for yourself.

There you go. Be healthy at the same time, be hooked. Nothing like the joy of sports with someone to play them with. Now get on out of here and make those arrangements.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

What NOT to do on the First Date

First impressions last - that's what most people say. Well, because it's true. That is why everyone who is on the dating game should know that the most important part the game is te first date and how you can use it to either make or break a relationship. Knowing what to do is one thing, but people should also know what NOT to do. And here are just some of them:

1. Trying too hard
It may be true that it's important to establish to the other person that you are a nice person, but it is also true that you should not overdo it. If you're a guy, being the knight in shining armor may be good, but it can also be too tacky. For the ladies, don't be too demure or sensitive. Just be your good self and let everything fall into their right place.

2. Choosing a bad venue
A couple of examples of bad dating venue are a fastfood joint, a Hooters bar and a very expensive resto. The first will tell your date you're cheap, the second that you're a pervert, and the last that you're an arrogant show-off. Just make it low profile, not too cheap and not too expensive. Or you can go on and be creative. A coffee house, the park, the beach - anywhere where the both of you can relax and have a good time talking and getting to know each other.

3. Being wishy-washy
If your date asks you where you wanna go, don't answer them with "doesn't matter." When it's time to order, don't be long and then just say that you're having what your date is having. This shows them that you are a spineless human being with no capability to decided for himself/herself. This is more awful if you're the guy. You don't want your date to think that you are the kind of guy who don't have plans and direction in life.

4. Watching too much TV
If by any chance you and your date end up in a place where there is a TV, say a restaurant or a bar with a tube behind the bar, you should never ever let them catch you watching it. Or better yet, don't even dare try to watch from it. And it doesn't matter if your favorite soap or gameshow is on. If your date is talking, you are suppose to listen and not wander on other things.

5. Being too honest
Honesty is the best policy, but not every time. And that includes the first date. This may not be the right time to tell your date that you have been arrested for drunk-driving or you have just gotten out of rehab. But that doesn't mean that you can lie. Just don't bring up your dark past when it's the first time you're going out with another person.

6. Constantly interrupting
The date is not only about you. Don't keep on jumping in when your date is trying to tell you a story about a trip they had or about their work. There is time for you to talk, and that is not when they are talking. That is just plain rude and is not only applicable on dates but in all kinds of social function. You should have known that by now.

7. Dressing inappropriately
Okay, you wanna impress your date. But please, don't do it with your body. If you happen to have a nice set of abs or breasts, don't flaunt too much of it and show them off with slutty clothes. Though this may work for some people, dressing up properly for the ocassion is still the prerequisite.

8. Going on taboo topics
You can talk about all sorts of things during your first date: yourself, background, work, past trips, etc. But just not the following: previous relationships, past heartbreaks, religion, politics and money. Also, avoid dropping names and bragging because these are topics more appropriate for locker room talks.

9. Flirting with the waiter/waitress
It doesn't matter if the person doing the waiting on your table is cute, hot and sexy. You are on a date and keep your focus on the person you're with. It's just rude to keep on checking out the waiter/waitress, or any other people around, when you are on a date.

10. Being drunk
It's okay to have fun on the first date. In fact, that is the main reason why you're there in the first place. Just don't have too much fun. It's okay to order a couple of alcoholic drinks, maybe a tequila shots for both of you. But it's important to know your limit because you don't wanna end up pissed drunk and you're date, the one person you are trying to impress, see you puking your guts out or passed out somewhere. That's just not cool.

So there you go. Just remember these simple scenearios and never ever let them happen on your first date. And we gurantee you will have an awesome dating life ahead of you.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Tips on How to Turn Digits Into Dates

I bet all of us have been in this situation at least one time in our lives. You were able to get the number of that hot babe or cute hunk over the bar. It was the best moment of your life which boosted your self-worth a couple of steps up. However when you called, things got "weird" and you end up being a babbling buffoon and ended up not seeing them again. Well, we here at Dating 4-1-1 decided to help you out in this department with these helpful tips that will have you turning those digits you scored one night into romantic dates the next. Use these tips to help you in doing it the right way.

1. Conquer your fear
The first problem one can encounter in trying to score a date after getting a telephone number is oneself. This is especially true with guys who always want to be cool about it so they postpone calling the girl a couple of days after they got their number. This then turn into weeks, then months until they finally lose the chance of seeing the hot lady again. All you have to do is just swallow your pride and fear and dial that phone and make that call.

2. Keep it short
If you does manage to get the balls to call them, be sure to be brief and precise. It's a common misconception that people wants to talk long on the phone when it's the first time you do talk. Just set up the date and leave all the talking on that said date. This is because if you talk long, this will just make you a pathetic loser in the eyes of your prospect because you don't have anything more important to do but talk on the phone.

3. End it first
Now this is one secret only a chosen gifted few knows. When having a conversation over the phone, the one who ends the call first wins the interaction. So if you are the one who cuts the conversation short, this gives you power. And if you're a guy, this will show girl that you are a man of confidence and dignity. And what else are women looking for in a guy but those two things.

4. Limit the time frame
When you agree on a date, be SPECIFIC about what you are going to do and how long you'll be together. You can say something like, “Let's meet at Tom's on Thursday at 8:00 p.m. for 20 minutes or so and have a quick drink." This way you won't scare off your date. When you set up a short time frame for the meeting, you avoid expectations. You won’t be forced to spend time with someone you aren’t into.

5. Dealing with voicemail
If you're afraid of leaving a message on their machine, you may have just lost another date because most people have it and use it to screen their calls, especially if they are so used to giving their numbers to strangers like you. That is why it is important for you to learn how to leave a voicemail for them. Keep the message short and sweet. Remind them who you are but don't give too much details. Just tell them where and when you met and a little background about you. Simple and to the point is always the best. If they don't call you back, just give it some time and try again. If you don't get a call after that, just move on. Don't act like a stalker. And if they do call back, good for you. This is when you use the other tips.

6. Be spontaneous and be yourself
This is probably the most overused cliche for dating but it is still the best tip you can get. Pretending to be another person is not cool when it comes to dating, whichever medium you're trying it on.

If the phone continues to be an obstacle for you, it’s probably because you aren’t creating enough attraction when you first meet. Luckily, this is a fairly easy fix as well, by just trying these tips to become the Casanova that you ally are.

Monday, June 30, 2008

Original Date Ideas

Originality, most people believe, is one important factor when part of the dating game. That is why it is important to set yourself apart from all the rest when it comes to going out for the night. So here are just some original date ideas that you cana take your prospect to to make sure they will remember not just the date, but also you.

Action-packed
To ensure a fun-filled date for both you and your date, you should take them to a place where there are a lot of things going on. A good example would be an outdoor mall where there are funky shops and street performers. This way, you get to save some cash because the entertainment is built right into the experience, at the same time, you can have quality time of talking and getting to know each other while strolling around.

Night Walk
This is much like the first date idea, but put it in a night setting. This can be more romantic if you just know what to do. Enjoy the night breeze and the sparkles of the stars, and make the dark your only witness for your awesome night out.

Shopping Galore
This is actually a bit tricky. Yes, both of you can certainly have a great time and have some clean fun. This is as long as you have a limit to your spending and not be their sugar mommy or sugar daddy who'll buy everything they want. And cute idea is also trying to have your date pick out something for you that you can use, maybe the next time you go out again.

Park Playtime
Bring the inner kid inside of you and your date by going to the nearest park and hang out by the playground. Swing on the swings, hop on the see-saw and ride the merry-go-round - these just spells fun all over the place.

Dog Walking
This is specially good if you are a guy trying to impress a girl. Everybody knows that girls love animals. So with this date, you get to show her your soft side by walking her dog with her. Or maybe our dog. Or your neighbor's dog. Doesn't really matter.

Be a Teacher
Teach your date something. It can be any activity under the sun. Cooking, pottery, surfing, boxing, basketball, knitting - you name it. As long as you too get a chance to bond and get to know each other, it's fine in the books.

Bike Ride
Just like walking, but a faster pace. To make this date work even better, make sure you know your route well and there are good places there where you can take a quick break. A coffee shop or a juice bar are just a couple of good ideas.

Late-night Dip
If you're feeling a bit adventurous and mischievous, why not try going for a night swim. Nothing is more fun and relaxing than being refresh by cold pool water, or even from a lake. Not only will the two of your have fun, you'll also get to see your date in a bikini or trunks.

There you have it, just some tips on how you can make your date a bit more memorable for you and your partner. These tried-and-tested date ideas will definitely have you scheduling another night out, as long as you don't act creepy.

Monday, June 16, 2008

Ways to Have an Unforgettable First Date

As we all know, the first date is a make-or-break situation. The success of the blossoming relationship strongly depends on whether the couple had a good time the first time they went out. This is also the moment where lasting impressions are made that will be the basis of a continuing partnership. That is why we here at Dating 4-1-1 thought of giving all you people a little reminder on how you can make your first date with that special someone extra romantic and unforgettable.

1. Set the date up right
An unforgettable date starts with a solid setup. So when you call up the person you wanna go out with, just fgo straight to the point and avoid stalling and delaying. Just tell them that you wanna have lunch or have drinks together. This way the other person won't think that you are some pathetic loser who have nothing better to do than to bug them. This shows them that you are a busy individual, but not too busy to get some time with them.

2. Don't be too clingy
One big mistake common on dates, especially on first dates, is that most people try too hard to impress the other person. They make such a big deal in showing their dates that their attention, time and effort are directed to them. Though this may sound sweet, not if done too much. Remember to still give them their space so they won't think once again that you are a desperate loser. Just be cool.

3. Keep your composure
Most people can't keep their composure when other people tests them. But don't ever think that when you are on a date, this is not going to happen. Because it's just a natural act for people to challenge their date's intellect or character, especially women. So just don't let the other person get you off balanced. Respond to them as fast as you can, giving them responses that will impress them of you as a person.

4. Make your move
Remember that whoever does the first move on a date will pretty much be the one who'll have control for the rest of it. So you just have to be smart in figuring out when the right moment arrives for you to make your move. Don't disappoint your date because this is probably what they are also been waiting for all night. But of course, you still have to be subtle with it because you might end up scaring them off.

5. Make it the first
The most effective way to make a lasting impression on the first date and making it special is by having a "first" on it. What do we mean, you ask? Do something that is a first for you date. This way, she'll always remember your date because it is the when she first did a particular thing.

So there you go. Good luck on going out there and grabbing that special someone for you. Just remember to always be yourself because that is the best way to actually be successful in the dating game.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Boosting Your Sexual Confidence

Admit it, one reason why you go out on dates is for you to score. And when I say score, I mean get laid. Well, there's no shame in that because that is actually a perfectly normal thing when you are having a relationship. But still, we have to be honest that most of us just can't seem to get on the right track when taking a relationship one step higher. Taking our relationship to the physical level is really not that easy. So we here at Dting 4-1-1 thought of giving you guys some helping hand so you can build some sexual confidence and finally be able to take that sweet plunge.

Learn where sexual confidence begin
Sexual confidence usually begins when a person knows exactly how to give his or her partner a mind-blowing pleasure. It's the confidence that no matter what you do, you are always doing the right thing to push your partner's buttons. And as you all know, making someone squirm is very easy if you know how to build anticipation. This is something we like to call "two steps forward. one step back" method. Imagine yourself trying to give it all you've got to your partner. When you think they are enjoying themselves, put a brake n what you're doing. Then resume and take it a notch higher. Do this and you'll guarantee to have them squirming like crazy.

Stop being manipulative
Most people take sex as a game. Though this work for many people, it is not a clear way to be able to get that sweet score you wanna get. So stop tricking other people in going to bed with you. Just be honest. There is still nothing to the good ol' emotions that will make sex way better than just the classic "wham, bam, thank you, ma'am."

Delay gratification
Just like what was said in teh first entry, anticipation is the key to being a sexually confident individual. And you can add up to this by building up sexual tension between you and your partner and make them want you even more. This way, you'll be able to amplify their arousal the moment you give it to them.

Act like sex is normal
Well, it is. So just don't make it a big deal. MOst people gets nervous when it comes to sex that makes them more vulnerable. Just have fun with it, continue with the teasing and make everything light and not like it's part of a job.

Put sex into perspective
With this one, we mean that you should not treat sex as the ultimate goal in your relationship. This way, you take all the burden out of it and you treat it just as a normal part of your life. Remember, your relationship won't end the moment you and your partner do it. The critical part is actually what will happen after you've done it.

Don't be afraid of rejection
Imagine yourself getting into first base, then second and third. It will just take you a couple of steps before you finally get into home base. Then your partner stop you for some reason, maybe they are not yet ready for it. Don't take this personally because most often than not, it is not because of you. It is probably just them having second thoughts. Just take it as a sign that it is still not yet the time. And remember, don't be too pushy if you got rejected.

Get in touch with your animal side
Simply put, just let yourself go and let instinct take control. Sex should not be an organized task that should have different steps. Just do what you wanna do when you feel like doing it. This way, you guarantee your partner that you are really enjoying what you're doing and you are not having any doubts about your relationship.

So there you go, we hope these tips can help you get closer to becoming a true Casanova. Sex is a normal part of relationship and you should just enjoy it like how most people do.

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Things That Girls Should Never Ask Their Boyfriends

Okay, let's not take too much time with the introduction. We here at Dating 4-1-1 promised an article about what girls should never ask their boyfriends, well because we posted something of the same nature for the guys out there a couple of days back. So as promised, here they are:

"What are you thinking?"
This question just invokes major argument. Why? Well, because basically guys don't know how to answer this. They will think that their partners are expecting them to commend them or say something sweet to them, which just puts them out there lying their hearts out. Most men just think about sex or sports so ladies, don't expect too much if ever you do ask this question to them.

"What would you do if I died?"
The question that usually follow this one is "Will you remarry?" And if your partner is the average fellow, he probably will. You certainly don't wanna hear that because it will just break your heart. And if he did tell you that he will not, you'll just probably accuse him of being dishonest. Besides, if you guys are not yet married, asking this question is like telling them that you already wanna get married, which is the ultimate fear of most men.

"Do you love me?"
Of course, they do. Why else would they still be hanging out with you if they don't. This question just shows that you are doubting them, instead of what you plan to do which is reassuring your love for each other. Most guys just don't wanna take that direction so women should jus be satisfied that they have a man.

"Do you think she's prettier than me?"

Only ask men this question if you are ready to break up with them. This is probably the second most difficult question for them to answer, well because this is like a trick question that if they answer to no, you will think they are liars. And if they answer yes, they'll think that you will call them cheating bastards. Just don't put your partners in this situation or else just suffer the consequence of a pretty long fight.

"Do I look fat?"
Another question that is very hard for men to answer. Probably the most difficult, matter of fact. Obviously, they don't wanna hurt your feelings by calling you fat or saying that you look like a cow. But of course, you ladies want your man to be honest all the time. Because of this, many men are just confused on what is the right thing to say if this question is being asked. Do them a favor and don't put them in this kind of situation. Honestly, it could be very traumatizing.

So there you go, ladies. Just spare yourself and your partner of the petty fight that may come out because of this silly questions. As much as possible, just stir clear of this kind of interrogations so you can have a happy life, you and your boyfriends.

Sunday, June 1, 2008

Things That Guys Should Never Ask Their Girlfriends

Last week, the good people of Dating 4-1-1 have listed some of the things you should never ever say to your partner to avoid any complications that could probably ruin your relationship. We certainly hope that those things did help you out and will help you out more in the time. Of course, we know that you guys still want more. So as a follow-up to that article, here is another article that will help you avoid any other unnecessary fight that may come your way. Here are some things you guys out there should never ask your girlfriends (Next post, something for the ladies.)

"Can I borrow some money?"
It may sound too cliche but it it still the common belief that the man is supposed to provide for the woman in their relationship. This is to make her feel more secure and sure about your relationship. So asking her to lend you money shatters this faith completely, especially to those women who are more dependent to their partners. This will also make her question you money sense, putting doubt in her mind about you being the strong and capable alpha-male who is supposed to have the financial responsibility in the relationship. If you are having money problems, why not just ask a buddy or get another job.

"Are you wearing that?"
There's a reason why women take so much time getting prepared when you guys are going out for a date. And that is because they are always making sure that they look good for you. This also assures them about themselves. But when you ask them this question, it's just the same as telling them that they are ugly or they don't look good at all. This question is also telling her that all her hard work in preparing for you just went down the drain. Just appreciate the fact that they took time to dress up because let's admit it, dressing up for women is a lot more difficult than for men.

"Why don't you go to the gym?"
This is a like the previous one. Asking him this question is just like telling her that she is a fat pig. And you know that no woman likes being told that she is fat. So if you ever feel that your girlfriend is gaining more weight than necessary, try telling her in a more subtle way.

"How many guys have you slept with?"
Most guys are pretty much fantasizing that their girlfriends are virginal being untouched by any form of vulgarity. But most of the time, this is not the case. And if you are a sane fellow, you will never ever think that you are your girlfriend's first-time. The same as you should never ever try to ask her how many fellows has she been with. Just be happy that you are together at the present and not go back to silly past relationships.
"Do you wanna have a threesome?"
Unless you have a girlfriend who is a nymphomaniac or a pornstar, this question should always be kept to yourself. Asking you partner to partake in your deepest sexual fantasy, no matter how dreamy and romantic you wanna put it, is always very dangerous. For one because of that green-eyed monster called jealousy. Then add to that your girlfriend wondering for the rest of your time together that she may not be enough for you that's why you're trying to add someone to your sexual relationship.

"Did you cum?"
It's a common notion that when men finish up during sex, most women may not have really started with theirs. That is why there have been so many popular consensus about women faking it to avoid hurting the ego and feelings of their partner. However, this doesn't give any man rights to ask if their partner did finish up like he did. The question just puts her in the spot and brings into question her sincerity to you. And besides, asking this question just after you guys have shared a special bond is definitely a mood killer. Just be happy that she is doing it with you and not some horny bastard out there.

"Why do you have to be such a bitch?"
This is just like saying that she is a bitch. Enough said.

So there you go. Just some of the questions no man should ask his girlfriend unless he wants to end a pretty good relationship. Next post, the list for all the ladies out there.

Thursday, May 29, 2008

Things That You Should Never Say to Your Partner

Here at Dating 4-1-1, we've been telling you guys that one of the best way to impress other people is by being a great conversationalist. Knowing what to say, when to say it and how to say it are essentials in becoming a smooth talker who will get all the ladies for the guys and guys for the ladies. But of course, there are still certain things that you must stir clear to avoid any unnecessary events. As they say, there is alwasy an exception to the rule. And those exceptions are the following...

"She's/He's Hot!"
No matter what you do, never ever let your partner hear you say complimenting other people for being hot or beautiful or attractive. Though it's a normal thing to admire other people, just be sure not to be too vocal about it when in front of your lover. This is usually the cause of fights between partners and one of the main reason of relationships breaking up. If you still can't help yourself, better start looking for someone else. Or just hope that the person you referred to as hot won't mind going out with you.

"My ex would..."
Don't ever start a statement with these words, unles you want to start a big fight. Comparing you current partner to your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend is just a war waiting to happen. You lover have trusted that you have already moved on, so making any reference to your exes will just bring you back to awkward-ville, and surely you don't like that. Just remember that current relations and exes just won't mix.

"Your friend is a bitch/dick."
Never ever bad-mouht their friends, no matter how big of an asshole they really are. Those are people they trust and care about. Just assume that you too don't like your partner saying bad things about your friends, especially those who are really close to you. This is especially true with girls and their BFF.

"You bitch/dick."
If they don't like you telling bad things about their friends, they probably won't like it when you do it to them. Calling them "bitch" or "dick" or any cuss word for that matter is just not right. Not even when you are in the heat of the moment while your arte making love. Leave those kind of dirty talks to the pornstars, unless your girlfriend/boyfriend dig a little kinkiness in bed.

"I'm not good enough for you."
We've discussed ho most people admire confidence. So saying this line is just admitting to your partner that you are one big loser who should not even had the chance with them. Besides, no one likes quitters.

"If you really love me, you would..."
Saying saomething that start with these words is just a big no-no. First of all, you are giving them bad signals that you are not the one for them. Second of all, this statement just brags that you are questioning their love towards you. And finally, you are trying to make your partner do something that they really don't want to do, which in many ways tell them that you are a controlling bastard.

"You're just like your mother/father."
People love their parents, but that does not mean that they wanna be like them when they grow up. No matter what you might want to believe, no one would want to be compared to their mother or father because most children's aim in life is to be better than their parents. This statement is just saying that they failed miserably in life because you, of all the people, still thinks that they are just like their parents.

"I'm not in the mood"
Okay, this is not so much for the ladies because let's admit it, there's a double standard when it comes to bed. But for guys to say that they are not in the mood, it's just like a slap in the face of your ladylove because it is not that often that women make the first move when it comes to having sex. So turning them down on those rare situations is just a fight waiting to happen.

"I don't like that..."
No matter how hideous their stuff look to you, never ever tell your partner that you don't like it. You might get away with not complimenting their new shirt, pants or hair style, but trying to tell them that it's not good and you don't like it just gives them the signal to start shouting at you for being insensitive and being an ass.

So there you go, just some of the things you should avoid saying to your partner. And if there are instances that you are not sure what to say, just shut up and don't open your mouth to avoid hurt feelings. Silence is still golden, you know.

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Effective Ways to Attract Women

Though there are lucky bastards out there who seems to have what it takes to always get the ladies, normals guys like us can still manage to snatch the big one for us if we only know what to do. And no, I'm not talking about silly pick-up lines this time. These are just some tips on how to attract the opposite sex for helpless romantic guys out there.

Be a master in communication. Women dig real men, those who are strong, independent and sure of himself - but not too much. That is why a good man should always know how to show these assets to women and the best way to do it is by communicating. Just look at the roster of romantic men in history and you'll see that many of them are guys who know how to use language to their advantage.

Always be certain. A strong guy should always be sure of himself. That is why men should just avoid being a wussbag and always be certain about things he is saying, doing and even thinking. And strong grip can also go along way when trying to impress the ladies.
Avoid being too emotional. Again, strong men attracts the most women. That is why being a crybaby is definitely a no-no when it comes to trying impress them. So avoid reliving your emotional past because you will just sound pathetic in front of the person you are trying to impress.

Know your strength and weaknesses. And just basically work this angle to your advantage to let the ladies see how perfect of a guy you are for them.
Learn how to plan. You've all probably heard women saying that they would rather be with guys who have dreams rather than being stuck with a pathetic low-life like you. Why not stop being a child and grow up and start making plans for your future.

Commit, commit, commit. It may sound scary, but if you're really sure that this is what you want, you guys better learn how to commit to this goal and do whatever you can to achieve it.

So there you go? Just remember that the dating scene out there is one heck of a jungle. That is why you should always know what you're getting into because in relationships, there is simply no turning back.