Tips for a Romantic Date Movie

One of the best way to spend a date, especially the second or third date, is by going out and watching a movie. But just like any part of dating, this one can also be tricky and nasty when not done right. That is why we are once again here to give you some tips and suggestion on how to go about with your date movie with your special someone. We will also provide with with some romantic movie options that will surely have you partner squirming in love with you. Get your pen and paper and let's begin.

1. Asking the other person to go out on a movie date should be casual. Maybe bring it up while you guys are talking about something on the phone. Never ever demand.

2. You guys can just meet in the movie house. But if you're the guy, it is better to pick your date up form her house. Maybe bring some flowers to impress her and how that you are a romantic person.

3. In picking the movie, let your date think of something you guys can watch. Then casually suggest something that you think that would be great for you that. Something that the both of you can enjoy. None of those movies with gores and too much violent. And don't even start with sexually-oriented movies bordering pornography.

4. Before entering the theater, ask your date if they wanna bring something to eat inside the movies. Popcorn and soda are the classic, so just stick to them. Don't ever try bringing something that you guys have to eat with spoons and forks.

5. Be quiet inside the movie house. You guys are watching a movie. Leave the talking for later on if you guys decided to have something to eat.

6. Avoid unnecessary touchings, especially if you're the guy. You don't want your date screaming and running to the police station to have you arrested for sexual harassment. But if in case you date wanna do something naughty, keep it mellow. You guys are still in a public place, not a hotel room.

7. After the movie, thank your date and tell them you had a nice time. Casually drop the issue of you guys having another date soon.

So there you go. Now you know what to do and what not to do when going out for a movie with your partner. Remember that these are just suggestions. These may or may not work depending on the situation. The best thing for you to do is just be yourself and stick to your guts when going out on dates. And to end this little piece, here are some romantic movie suggestions you guys can try out to maybe score more points. Impress your date by showing them you are one helpless romantic with these blockbusters for lovers.

Sleepless in Seattle (1993)
City of Angels (1998)
A Clockwork Orange (1971)
The Notebook (2004)
Ghost (1990)
Dirty Dancing (1987)
Gone with the Wind (1939)
Romeo and Juliet (1996)
Titanic (1997)
Love Actually (2003)
Notting Hill (1999)
Shakespeare in Love (1998)
Casablanca (1942)
When Harry Met Sally (1989)

Online Dating Safety Tips

I know dating has been one hell of a task for all of us. Dating etiquette, dating rules, dating do's and don't's - they may all seem lot of work but knowing all of them will save everyone of us lots of tears and blood when it comes to dating heartbreaks. But with the super-fast growth of technology, especially with IT and the Internet, there is one more thing daters out there should take into consideration. Dating becomes more complicated as online dating blossoms from out of nowhere. But don't worry, we here at Dating 4-1-1 still have everything on control as we give you some of online dating do's and don't's. By just following these tips, you'll probably have more luck with scoring a decent relationship. Or else you'll just end up crying once again. Or worse, being a victim of online scammers.

Choose the proper username. Your username will be your moniker you whole Net life. Unless you're some scammer out for a kill, then you should just stick to one username. Also remember that everybody who sees your username, no matter if its on chat sites, forum and other personal sites, will associate it to your personality. So using suggestive names like "sexybabe69" or "wellhung_guy" is just like asking for trouble. Be more wholesome with your choice of username.

Guard personal information. Never ever give out to strangers important details about you and your life. Maybe you can give them your real first name, sex, age, location - simple stuff. But never ever give out social security numbers, address, credit card information and any information that may lead to identity fraud. C'mon, there's a reason why our mothers always tell us not to talk to strangers.

Check for honesty. Ask for previous relationships. You don't want to be a third-party in some married couple life. Make sure that you get the details of it from the person you are planning to date.

Exchange photos. This can be done even at the start of your online relationship. But this is a must when you guys decide to meet up personally for the first time. You don't wanna guess whom you are meeting just when you're already at the place.

Arrange personal meeting ahead of schedule. Do it maybe a week or two before the actual date. This way you'll be able to be ready for the big day. The tips on first dates also apply here.

Meet in a public place. This is to make sure that you will be safe even if you're meeting with a total stranger. Be sure that there are lots of people wherever you guys go to avoid being a tight situation you don't wanna be in.

Don't drink too much alcohol. Remember, being drunk will affect and cloud your judgment. And you don't wanna be vulnerable when with someone you just met. And you definitely don't wanna look like a drunken mess with the person who you are wishing will be the right one for you.

Always be alert. Falling head-over-heels is not that suited with situation like this. Though the person you are dating is the most romantic person you've ever met, this doesn't mean you're already out of the loop. Just put in mind people being victimized by abductors who are like Shakespeare when they talk.

Exchange cellphone number. You'll probably wanna go on another date if everything went to their right places on your first date. But that doesn't mean you should lose your composure. You can give out your number as long as its your cellphone and not your home phone number. This is safer because they will not be able to track you down if they turned out to be crazy freaks.

Never let your date take you home. You don't want them tracking you down by not giving them your home phone number. So it's just stupid to let them know where you're living.

So there you go, some tips to keep your online dating smooth and safe. Online dating, as many of you know, is a very risky way to find your partner. But with the right knowledge, it can be one rollercoaster ride full of fun and surprises. Go logon now to your favorite dating site and start looking for that right person for you.

The Most Romantic Date Spots

One of the most important element in dating is the place. May it be a classy restaurant, in the woods or inside a limo, the romantic ambiance of the location will be a make-or-break factor if you continue with your road for love. That is why I decided to give you some tips on where to go for the most romantic date you'll ever have in your life. It might cost us all a hole in our pockets, but going in some of these love destination will assure everyone that they will truly live a life happily ever after. Just like what happens on fairy tales...

Tokyo, Japan. Call for a reservation for two at the New York Grill at the Park Hyatt in Tokyo, located at the heart of Shinjuku. Relive all the magical and romantic scenes from the movie Lost in Translation which was filmed at this exact location. This restaurant has been a favorite among men when they want to propose to their women, and not just Japanese men but just about every romantics out there.

Sydney, Australia. Many people say that when you are in Australia, you just have to go to the Sydney Opera House. Well, that is right. Especially if you are in the area around New Year's and you're with your lover. There is nothing more magical than watching the famed New York firework display from inside Opera House.

Phuket, Thailand. If you want to live like royalty, why not book a room for you and your lover in one of Phuket's exclusive hotel resorts. Get back with nature as you soak yourself in this paradise, at the same time soak your aching bodies in the cold sea.

Prague, Czech Republic. A date in Prague will be like a blast from the past. Go on romantic walks with your lover along the historical trails of this city, while admiring all the wonderful architecture and artworks. Then cap off the night by having a romantic dinner full of delicious food inside real-life castles.

Agra, India. There is nothing like waking up in one of the best hotels in the world, the exclusive Oberoi Amarvilas Hotel in Agra, India and experiencing a breathtaking view of one of the most famous landmark dedicated to love, the Taj Mahal. With its Moorish and Mughal-inspired architecture, you yourself would want to spend you the rest of your life with your lover, and maybe until after death.

Cairo, Egypt. Be astounded as you admire the Great Pyramids of Giza. Cairo truly is a paradise on Earth with its beauty, elegance and charm, perfect for hopeless romantics like us.

New York, USA. Though you've been hearing all the bad things about this city, a night at New York is still a great idea for lovers seeking an escape from real life. With a wide array of restaurants to choose from and activities to do, being at the Big Apple will truly stick to the hearts of all lovers alike. And you just gotta try the carriage ride around Central Park.

Vienna, Austria. There is a reason why Mozart loved this city. Vienna is one of the most historic cities in the Old Continent, it is very rich in culture and the arts, which is a perfect and classy setting for bringing a relationship to the next level.

Venice, Italy. Imagine yourself riding a gondola with your ladylove, the sound music in the background as you two takes a journey around this historic city. For this reason alone, every couple should be able to experience what Venice love really feels like.

Paris, France. Though it may sound like a cliche, Paris is still the most romantic place in the world. There's a reason why many people fly to this beautiful city, and one of them is the Eiffel Tower. So do we really need any more reason?

So there you go. These are just some of the romantic places in the world where you can have that needed boost to your relationships. But always remember, it is still how you feel that matters when it comes to relationship. You may be stuck in the most romantic spot in the world. But if you don't even like who you're with, it will still be a complete waste.

Top 10 Best Pick-up Lines

I just really enjoyed writing my post about the "Top 10 Worst Pick-up Lines," and I hope you guys also enjoyed reading it. Anyway, that's why I thought of doing a follow-up on that post, but this time, listing what I think is the "Top 10 Best Pick-up Lines." I certainly hope that this will be as fun as the other post.

As I've said, pick-up lines, no matter what negative reputation they have, are still very important when it comes to dating and flirting and basically, meting people. These lines, may they be cheesy and corny, are what we, especially men, rely on when starting a conversation with the woman they see on a bar and like. Pick-up lines, I'd like to believe, are the gateway on which a good relationship starts. But I also think that they serve as that thin line between a romantic night between possible lovers or a disastrous, nasty, awkward and embarrassing mess. What kind of words that comes out one's mouth can actually make or break a dating chance and a chance for, well, love. So here you go, here are just some of the pick-up lines that I find romantic that have a bigger chance of working on anyone out there. You may try using them, but I warn you: Use them at your own risk!

10. "Who's your friend?"
Simple but very risky. You are putting up your chance by trying to shift the attention to the person he or she is with. But if he or she replies, you're in because hey, he/she is talking to you already. You have his/her attention and that's what you want.

9. "What's your name?"
Okay, this time the person you like is the center of your attention, or at least you'll have them believe that. With this line, there is surely no room for embarrassment. If the person gives his/her name to you, then you're in. If they don't, doesn't matter. They will just not talk to you and you just walk away with your dignity.

8. "Tell me something. Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?"
Flattery is the best tool, especially on picking up girls. This might not work that well for men, but still, it;s worth a try. Telling the person this just shows them that you think of them as angels. And c'mon, what can be better than being considered an angel?

7. "You dropped something, my jaw!"
This is you saying that the person is hot. And you have the hots for her. Clever, sweet and cute...

6. "Are you tired? 'Cause you've been running through my mind all day."
Just be careful with this one, because you might some off as some insane lunatic. But if it works, you'll definitely get some good loving because you have just manage to tell the person you are eyeing that you will make them the most important person in the world.

5. "When God made you, He was showing off!"
Another clever and witty way to tell the person that he/she looks good. This one will definitely work best if the person you are going after is also religious.

4. "I may not be the best-looking guy in here, but I'm the only one talking to you."
Using this line, you might wanna think first because you need to look at least decent before these words leave your mouth. If you're a good-looking person, this just shows that you are being modest. And women like non-arrogant SOBs. But if you are ugly, using this line is just broadcasting how pathetic and insecure you are.

3. "See my friend over there? He wants to know if you think I'm cute."
Another way of showing the person you're into that you are not some airhead whose looks is the only important thing in the world. You might also follow this one with something like, "I just can't believe that they always say yes..."

2. "So what haven't you been told tonight?"
Very original, and this one will make you stand out from all the other jerks who tried hitting on that person. You acknowledge their being attractive, while sympathizing with their frustration with those other pathetic losers. You also showed that your are confident and interested enough to try it with them.

1. "I made a bet with myself that you have wonderful eyes. Guess what? I won."
Sweet, cute, smart, witty, romantic. Anything you would wanna hear another person say to you. So why not try it to get the person you like.

So there you go? My Top 10 Best Pick-up Line. Again, use them at your own risk. Well, dating basically that: taking your risk for the person you like. So one day, you can go off to some romantic place and live happily ever after.

Dream Date Scenario, Know 'Em And You Might Get Lucky

Yup, dating is one heck of a battlefield. The mind games. The politics. And don't forget the hours and money put into it is enough to make any person crazy. But at the end of it all, every single one of us is still longing for that one magical moment. That special instance where we become truly aware that it is really love that you are feeling. The elusive dream date that came true.

It is really hard to start going out dating. But some of us just have the best luck in the world because they are gifted with that special skill, being a romantic. And this is the first thing you'll need in setting up that magical dream date that usually only happens in TV and movies. But don't worry, if you are not gifted with being a romantic, you can always try these things that we would like to call "Most Romantic Dream Date Scenario." You probably need a lot of preparing for these dates, but it will surely pay off once you have the love of your life falling head-over-heels with you after taking them in these surreal fantasy dates.

The Exotic Date. It's not your usual dinner date with your partner in some cheap Italian or Chinese restaurant. Everybody is just so sick and tired of those. This is set in a very special restaurant with eclectic food, surreal decors and exotic music. Encourage your date to order something he/she have never tried before. You also order something but that is completely different of theirs. This way, you have an excuse to eat off each other's plates just because you guys are trying something new. Then you can take your date to the movie, but not of the latest chick flick or gore-fest, but of some artsy, maybe even a foreign film that will have you looking like someone who is not that boring. Change is good, especially when it comes to dating.

The Dancing Date. No matter what your excuse is, one of the most romantic activity a couple can engage in is dancing. This is especially true for women because this way, they will have a chance to shine. If you're a guy, tell your girlfriend to put on her sexiest black dress because you will take her dancing. And hopefully, your night will end with you sweeping her off her feet.

The Extreme Date. Put some adrenaline in your life, and to your relationship too. Go skydiving, kayaking, bungee jumping, etc. Anything that can have you and your partner's blood go pumping. Excitement is an important factor in a relationship. And this is the best way to bring that spark back in there.

The Rolling Date. Instead of the usual date where you guys head out to some place, why not spend your date while on the road. It will be like your usual road trip, but it can get more romantic and sexy because who knows what might happen when tow lovebirds get alone inside some car. To spice it up even more, go ahead and rent limousine for a more glamorous night on the road. Champagne, strawberries, what more can you ask for?

The All-Out-Date. This is something couple who have been together for some time already can do. Spice up your relationship and take it to the next level by going on a weekend trip together. You can check-in on some hotel by the mountainside. You guys can go hiking or exploring nature. Then maybe go on the hotel's spa and get a side-by-side massage. You can also go dipping in the pool, even get playful with each other while you're at it. A romantic dinner to highlight the wonderful vacation you are having. Then cap it off by spending the night tucked in a blanket as you gaze at the stars above. And maybe, you can do more than that.

A little spice in a relationship won't hurt. In fact, this is something everyone should do to just get away from that monotonous life they are living. Beside, being just together and doing something is something that can help boost the fire on a relationship. So why not take it to the next level and go extra romantic.

Top 10 Worst Pick-up Lines

Ask any woman out there, and they will say that pick-up lines don't work on them. They claim that they are very cheesy, arrogant and demeaning in every way. But regardless what those women has to say, pick-up lines are the most essential part when meeting other people in different social places. That is because any man should start somewhere, and the forst thing he should do is to open a conversation with the woman. And no matter what you do, those words that you will say are going to be categorized as pick-up lines.

That is why it is just very important for men to know what they should say to the girl they see on the bar that they like. Regardless of what women say about not liking pick-up lines, the opening lines should always be funny, witty, original, sincere and subtle. Men should avoid using language that is crude, insulting, condescending, abusive and arrrogant. It may sound like an impossible tasks, but guys should know what they are doing and saying. Or at least what not to say. That is why I present to you, the top 10 worst pick-up lines any guy should not use. Unless he likes to have a slap in the face and a broken ego before calling it a night.

10. "Pssst..."
Talk about being rude. She has a name. Why not just approach her and ask for it. Instead of being a baby and calling her like a dog.

9. “What’s your sign?”
This is the epitome of being cheesy. Added to the fact that this one is as old as your grandmother. You may get to hear very often in movies and TV shows, but this line just doesn't work in real life. And it should be buried immediately.

8. “Pardon me, I seem to have lost my phone number, can I borrow yours?”
Another one of those classics. This was popular around the early to mid-1910's. But you just have to give it a rest because telephones are just not that cool. And using it to pick-up women is just lame.

7. “Can I take your picture? I want Santa to know exactly what I want for Christmas.”
Treating women like they are your property is just something that any man should not do. Especially when they just met. And this line just screams "guy is a egostic maniac who treats women as toys."

6. “Well, here I am. What are your other two wishes?”
Arrogant and delusional, do you really think women dig men that are both of these?

5. "How would you like your eggs for breakfast: scrambled, boiled or fertilized?"
This one may sound funny, but trying to be witty at the same time presumptuous is just plain idiotic. And you don't want your dream girl to think of you that way, right?

4. "You might as well sleep with me because I'm going to tell everybody we did it anyway."
Prepare you face because you are definitely going to get slapped the moment these line come out from your mouth. Lines with sexual overtones just don't work on most women.

3. "Hey babe, do you know that my bedroom is soundproof?"
They are not hookers. If you want this line to work, I suggest you guys just head off to the red-light district of your neighborhood.

2. "Can I buy you a drink, or do you just want the money?"
Women don't like to be treated as property, the same way that they don't like the feeling that they are being bought.

1. "If you've lost your virginity, can I have the box it came in?"
You just told the girl that you think she's not a virgin. What's the matter with you? Why not just ask her if it's that time of the month for her too? No pick-up line should have any reference to a woman's genitalia. And for that matter, yours too.

So guys, there you go? These lines may sound funny to you, but they are not to women who are sensitive. That is why never ever use any of these pick-up lines so you can still have a good time without getting beaten up into a bloody pulp.

Dating Ain't Hard As You Thought It Can Be

There is really nothing wrong believing the saying "there is always an exception to every rule." But still, having guidelines and standards won't hurt either. That goes to everything we do as individual and as a part of a society. And that also goes true when it comes to dating.

I know, there really is not magic formula as to become a dating monger. Every case vary, which actually gives it a thrill. Not knowing what will happen still makes dating a lot of fun. But that is if you know what you are doing. That is why I thought that I can give everyone out there some tips when it comes to being better in the dating game.


Be prepared. We've heard it a million of times. Never go to battle unprepared or you're just asking to be killed. If you want to be successful in going out on dates, you should be decided on who you are looking for. Do your research - what you like, what type of person are you willing to meet, etc. You should also be committed when you decide to start dating again. Or else, if you are half-hearted about it, you might as well just sit back home and watch TV rather than getting rejected every time.

Be the best that you can be. This goes with your appearance. It may be wrong and shallow to say, but having that lasting first impression is key when it comes to dating. And of course, how else can you expect to have a good first impression if you don't look good. Why not begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Maybe get a hair cut that suits you best. You should also go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes. As they say, looking good id not a crime.

Have dating goals and timescales. This is just like every task and project you have, either in work, at home or in life. Be sure what you really want and when you want it. Do you see yourself getting married in a couple of years? Then you better approach dating more accordingly. If you just wanna meet people, then be more laid back and cool about how you go out on dates.

Choose wisely. This means that you should go for those people you have a good chance of dating. Don't aim too low, but not too high. Just be realistic when making your choice for your dates. You don't wanna end up being stuck with someone you don't like, as much as you don't wanna be hurt after being rejected, right?

Know your local dating scene. This is crucial. Just knowing what to do on dates is not enough because you certainly need to know where you can go out on dates, and get the dates themselves. Do your homework and find out where you can likely to meet people like clubs, societies, sports events and other venues. You will not meet people by just staying indoors.

Take a break from dating once in a while. If you feel that the dating scene is being cruel on you, just take some time off and focus your attention on something else, like maybe work or studies. Dating is just like a ball game. You still need some rest to refresh yourself so that you can recharge your confidence and keep your optimism levels high. Remember, dates for you won't run out, but it can sure get tired of you.

Just enjoy dating. You are going out because you wanna have fun. Take it seriously, but never make it your life. If you feel like dating is taking a toll on you and being a burden for you, it is the time to just back off.

Don't make yourself too available. It may be a cliche but almost all people still wants some mystery and enigma. The thrill of the chase when dating still puts more fun to it. Besides, putting out so much will just show people that you are cheap and not the one to be taken seriously

So there you go. Just follow these simple tips and give your dating life a bit of a boost. These things are just opinions and are not guaranteed to have 100% effectivity, but there is no harm in trying them.

Do's and Dont's for Your First Date

Everybody knows that the dating scene out there is such a "dog eat dog world." That is why I believe that everyone just needs all the help they can get when they do find someone that would go out with them.

Convincing another person to go out with may sound like the hardest part. But think again. There is providing that lasting first impression to your date, which is probably the most critical part of them all. What to do on that first night out? What thing should you avoid to turn your date off? Well, let's answer those questions and more so all you daters can go out there and be the master of your craft.

Do's

1. Be on time. As they say, the early bird catches the worm. Punctuality is one key to show your date that you are a responsible individual and you give them importance.

2. Make your partner feel comfortable. If you're the guy, be a gentleman to your date as much as possible. They may say that chivalry have died, but a good gentleman can always get the ladies. For the gals our there, just don't make your date feel like he's under the knife and every wrong move he does will be the end of it for him. In short, make the date as fun as possible.

3. Keep the conversation flows going. Be the true master of linguistics. But you don't have to know many languages and dialects either. Just be able to come up with stuff you guys can talk about. Or if your date is trying to tell you something, a story perhaps, make sure that you listen intently so you can follow-up on his/her stories, maybe something related to theirs.

4. Be an interesting date. Try to prove to your date that you are worth their time for going out. Let them know what skills and talents you have. Or maybe what stuff you like doing that will set you off something more than a couch potato or a lazy bastard. Again, being a good conversationalist will be in hand for this one.

5. Laugh at their jokes. Their jokes may not be funny, but you still have to give them credit for trying to lake you laugh. If you can't laugh, maybe just a smile will do. But don't overdo it either. Don't let your date know that you are getting bored with his/her jokes by just pretending to laugh at them.

6. Talk about their interests also. The date is not just about you.

7. Be a romantic. Everybody is such a sucker for romance, so this is one thing you should be able to play to your advantage. Just don't overdo it.

8. Be confident. Again, not too much. Or you probably end up being a airhead resulting to your date getting fed up with you.

9. Be yourself. Being someone else other than yourself will definitely blow up in your face. First impressions are important, so trying to put your better foot in front is good. But don't ever pretend that you are someone else just because you wanna impress your date.

Dont's

1. Be late. Or else your date will just get up and leave.

2. Talk about yourself all night. Because you are not the only person on this date. And in the whole world for that matter.

3. Ask too many questions. Be interested on your date, but don't overdo it. Or you'll just sound like a freaking stalker or something.

4. Try to be something you are not. Because you are just going to make a fool out of yourself.

5. Talk about an ex-relationship all night. This is probably the biggest mistake you can do. No one likes hearing tales about a former partner, especially on the first date. It's a big insult and will just result to a few awkward moments.

6. Eat with your mouth open. You are not a lion, a tiger or a pig. Be polite.

7. Forget to thank them for the date. Or you probably won't get to the second date.

8. Pursue sex after your partner has said no. This will just put you in a situation where you're date will think you are some kind of a pervert or a nymphomaniac.

9. Propose marriage or kids. Not even people who have long relationship do this. So why would you on the first date.

So there you have it. Good luck and happy dating!

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