Things That You Should Never Say to Your Partner

Here at Dating 4-1-1, we've been telling you guys that one of the best way to impress other people is by being a great conversationalist. Knowing what to say, when to say it and how to say it are essentials in becoming a smooth talker who will get all the ladies for the guys and guys for the ladies. But of course, there are still certain things that you must stir clear to avoid any unnecessary events. As they say, there is alwasy an exception to the rule. And those exceptions are the following...

"She's/He's Hot!"
No matter what you do, never ever let your partner hear you say complimenting other people for being hot or beautiful or attractive. Though it's a normal thing to admire other people, just be sure not to be too vocal about it when in front of your lover. This is usually the cause of fights between partners and one of the main reason of relationships breaking up. If you still can't help yourself, better start looking for someone else. Or just hope that the person you referred to as hot won't mind going out with you.

"My ex would..."
Don't ever start a statement with these words, unles you want to start a big fight. Comparing you current partner to your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend is just a war waiting to happen. You lover have trusted that you have already moved on, so making any reference to your exes will just bring you back to awkward-ville, and surely you don't like that. Just remember that current relations and exes just won't mix.

"Your friend is a bitch/dick."
Never ever bad-mouht their friends, no matter how big of an asshole they really are. Those are people they trust and care about. Just assume that you too don't like your partner saying bad things about your friends, especially those who are really close to you. This is especially true with girls and their BFF.

"You bitch/dick."
If they don't like you telling bad things about their friends, they probably won't like it when you do it to them. Calling them "bitch" or "dick" or any cuss word for that matter is just not right. Not even when you are in the heat of the moment while your arte making love. Leave those kind of dirty talks to the pornstars, unless your girlfriend/boyfriend dig a little kinkiness in bed.

"I'm not good enough for you."
We've discussed ho most people admire confidence. So saying this line is just admitting to your partner that you are one big loser who should not even had the chance with them. Besides, no one likes quitters.

"If you really love me, you would..."
Saying saomething that start with these words is just a big no-no. First of all, you are giving them bad signals that you are not the one for them. Second of all, this statement just brags that you are questioning their love towards you. And finally, you are trying to make your partner do something that they really don't want to do, which in many ways tell them that you are a controlling bastard.

"You're just like your mother/father."
People love their parents, but that does not mean that they wanna be like them when they grow up. No matter what you might want to believe, no one would want to be compared to their mother or father because most children's aim in life is to be better than their parents. This statement is just saying that they failed miserably in life because you, of all the people, still thinks that they are just like their parents.

"I'm not in the mood"
Okay, this is not so much for the ladies because let's admit it, there's a double standard when it comes to bed. But for guys to say that they are not in the mood, it's just like a slap in the face of your ladylove because it is not that often that women make the first move when it comes to having sex. So turning them down on those rare situations is just a fight waiting to happen.

"I don't like that..."
No matter how hideous their stuff look to you, never ever tell your partner that you don't like it. You might get away with not complimenting their new shirt, pants or hair style, but trying to tell them that it's not good and you don't like it just gives them the signal to start shouting at you for being insensitive and being an ass.

So there you go, just some of the things you should avoid saying to your partner. And if there are instances that you are not sure what to say, just shut up and don't open your mouth to avoid hurt feelings. Silence is still golden, you know.

The Dating Ten Commandments

Though many say that there are really no clear and standard rules when it comes to dating (we here at Dating 4-1-1 believe so too), there are still somethings we can do to make sure that we have a very healthy and successful dating life. That is why we on this humble site decided to come up with the Dating Ten Commandments. And we came up with these:


1. Thou shall not talk about the exes too much.

Everybody has their own baggage that comes from several past relationships. And these baggages have no place when it comes to trying to impress another person. So just avoid talking too much about past boyfriends or girlfriends to the one your currently dating. Though you may talk about it once in a while, but that is only when you guys have already been together long.

2. Thou shall not frequent your exes.

If you're not allowed to talk about them that much, you are not also allowed to spend too much time with them. As much as you like to stay friends with your exes, this does not look good to the person you are currently dating. Unless you wanna risk being dumped and being along again.

3. Thou shall learn how to compliment.
Learn how to make the other person feel good about themselves. A little pat on the back when they did something nice, especially for you, is not half-bad. Good ol' fashion compliments are never out of style like telling your date they look good.

4. Thou shall not put your partner to the pedestal.

Though most people like the feeling that other people treat them importantly, overdoing it may also kill it. There's nothing wrong with praising and commending things that your partners have done, but never do this in such a way that you are treating them just like they are gods and goddesses. Just try to treat them like normal people. Remember: no one is perfect.

5. Thou shall not be too enthusiastic.

When we say "too enthusiastic," this include people who acts like stalkers. It's alright to be concerned on what your partner is doing at certain moments, but not every time. There's still a thin line between being caring and being too clingy. YOu don't wanna seem too pathetic also.

6. Thou shall not be too serious.

This means that when you think someone is not into you, just give up. They say that quitting is not good, but it is when it comes to dating. Especially when you see that all your efforts are just going down the drain. It'll be easy for both parties to just move on with the next thing and forget all about it.

7. Thou shall not discuss other men/women.

Jealousy the most common perpetrator of broken relationship. So just don't let this green-eyed monster get in between you and the person you are dating. Avoid talking about other people and saying good things about them.

8. Thou shall not let yourself go.

After you've been able to spend some time with someone, that does not mean that you can let your guard down. Well, you can be comfortable around them at a certain point, but not too much. Just don't forget to do stuff that can impress the other person because admit it, dating is always all about survival of the fittest. And once you let your guard down, you are dead meat.

9. Thou shall not rush into things.

Leave the "wanna go out this weekend?" and "wanna meet my parents?" lines at home especially when you are still on the start of a relationship. You are just bringing awkwardness to much greater levels and that will leave you all alone once again.

10. Thou shall not lose faith.

Faith on whom? Well, yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always have yourself to fall back into. And besides, if you don't believe that you can find that one special person, you will not. So just continue on dating and never quit until you meet the right one for you.

Signs That You Should Move On

One important lesson every person should learn about dating: when it seems that things are not working out, it's time to bail out. This is to avoid any more wasted time, money and effort. And of course, hurt feelings. But you're probably asking right now how would you know when to bail out. When is the right time that you should call it quits with the person you're dating just because it won't go anywhere? Is there any signs that can tell you to just quit and move on the next person? Well, there are. And here they are...

Invitation declined. This is a clear sign that a person is not that interested in you. If a person keeps on turning down your offer for a cup of coffee or a dinner, eh or she probably is not into you. Especially if it's already the millionth time you ask and they are still saying no.

No friend introduction. One way to see if a relationship is moving forward is through something called comfort zone. And one perk of being in this zone is getting to meet the other person's friends, if not their family. But if you guys have already gone out for a whole month, without him or her saying anything about meeting their friends, my friend, it's time to bail out. This is especially true in cases that you yourself keep on bugging you partner about doing something with his or her friend but he or she always find a way not to go with it.

Always with friends. This is the exact opposite of the above point. Though meeting your partners friends is good, having them always around like bodyguards during dates and what nots, is also a bad sign. This just goes to show that the person does not want to spend time with you alone and they have no interest in you in any way. But you certainly can be friends.

Talking about other people. If your boyfriend keeps on talking about that hot chick she saw or your girlfriend always telling you how she have this huge crush on a guy at work, just take it as a signal that they are no longer interested in you. This is actually a pretty clear sign, and only pathetic losers, or blind and deaf people, won't get.

Avoiding intimate settings. Okay, you may had the chance to bring the person to a dinner or a movie, but when you tried asking her to go away for the weekend or something more intimate, he or she always find an excuse not to come, better say bye-bye as soon as possible. This just goes to show that the other person is not ready for something deeper and more serious. And if you're the person who wants security, then better bail out when this sign comes up.

No physical contact. This includes hand touching, peck on the chick and other small gestures. If you are not getting these stuff, you probably won't have any chance getting more.

Playing cupid. If the person you're dating keeps on setting you up with other people, that just mean that they are not into you. This is especially true with girls. So guys, if the person you are having an interest to keeps on introducing you to her friend and setting you up on dates, the best thing to do is just go on those dates and forget about her.

No call back. The most blatant sign of all. If the person does not return your call, it's pretty obvious that it's time for goodbye.

This may sound too familiar, but it's true that there are millions of people out there that are probably more suitable to you. Don't waste time and effort on someone who is not really into you. So if you see these signs on the people you are interested on or dating at the moment, it is just about time to bail out and move on to the next thing.

Be A Multilingual Romantic

There is still a bit of a dispute about which is the universal language, music or love. But because this is Dating 4-1-1 and people here are just bunch of hopeless romantic, we would like to believe that it's love. But even though you have this emotion inside you that can drive you to do things you don't normally do with strange people, you still have to break the language barrier especially when you're in a far, far place. So here are just some love phrase, that can help you speak out the language of love no matter what part of the world you're in.

In Spanish

I love you
Te quiero Te amo

Kisses are the unspoken words of love
Siano i baci le parole d'amore che non ti dico

I am in love
Estoy enamorado/ estoy enamorada

I miss you
Te echo de menos

I adore you passionately
Te adoro apasionadamente

I love you with all my heart
Te quiero con todo mi corazón

Love me or I shall die!
¡Quiéreme o me muero!

I can't live without you
No puedo vivir sin ti

I want to be with you forever
Quiero estar contigo para siempre

I love you more than yesterday, but not as much as tomorrow
Cada día te quiero más que ayer y menos que mañana
In French

I love You
Je t'aime

I adore you
Je t'adore

You are the joy of my life
Tu es ma joie de vivre

You are my love
Tu es mon mon amour

My love for you is eternal
Mon amour pour toi est éternel

My love for you is as grand as the world
Mon amour pour toi est si grand que le Mond

You are my love
Tu es mon mon amour

Kisses are the unspoken words of love
Que mes baisers soient les mots d'amour que je ne te dis pas

I dream about Your eyes day and night
Tes yeux, j'en reve jour et nuit

I miss you
Tu me manques

In Polish

I love you
Kocham cię

I like you
Lubie cię

People were created because of love and to love
Czlowiek stworzony jest z milości i do milości

Love is a wonder wich can happen again
Milosc to cud, który zawsze może się znów zdarzyć
Don’t talk, just kiss
Milcz i całuj

Love is a happiness
Milość sama w sobie jest szczęściem
You would never love like before
Nie kocha się nigdy jak przedtem

I think about you
Myślę o Tobie

I was dreaming about you last night
Śniłaś mi się tej nocy

I don’t want to lose you
Nie chcę Cię stracić

In Italian

I love you
Ti amo

You are a star...my star
Tu sei una stella...la mia stella

I am falling in love with you
Sto cadendo nell'amore con voi

I can't live without you
Non posso vivere senza voi

My heart is for you
Il mio cuore è per voi

I like you more and more
Gradisco voi di più e più

I love you with all my heart
Ti amo con tutta l'anima

I miss you
Mi manchi

You're my soulmate
Sei la mia anima gemella

I want to spend the rest of my life with you
Voglio passare il resto della mia vita con te

In Japanese

I love you
Watashi wa anata ga suki desu

I need you
Anata ga hitsuyou desu
I miss you
Anata ga inakute samishii

Love needs no teaching
Koi ni shishou nashi

Love makes all men equal
Koi ni jouge no hedate nashi

Love is without reason
Koi wa shian no hoka

Love is blind
Koi wa moumoku

Love becomes deep easily, but cools down soon
Koi wa nesshi yasuku same yasui
You are an angel
Anata wa tenshi no yoo desu
You have beautiful eyes
Kirei-na hitomidane

In Filipino

I love you
Mahal kita

You are dear to me
Mahal ka sa akin

I want to spend the rest of my life with you
Gusto kitang makasama habang buhay
I want to marry you
Gusto na kitang pakasalan

You are an angel
Ikaw ay isang anghel

You are the only one I will love forever
Ikaw lamang ang aking iibigin magpakailanman

I love you truly
Ang pag-ibig ko sa iyo ay tunay
I'll take care of you
Aalagaan kita

I won't neglect you
Hindi kita pababayaan

I'll die without you
Mamamatay ako kung wala ka

There you go. You now have the tools to be a multilingual lover. All we can say here at Dating 4-1-1 is, GO GET THEM TIGER!!!

Be Funny, Get a Date

Humor, to some people, is probably that sixth sense only a chosen few has. And for some people, humor is the most effective way how to communicate with others, especially on those first-meeting instances. That is why humor is such an effective tool in attracting other people, may it be for something platonic or something deeper than friendship. I bet you, especially the guys out there, have had experiences wherein a someone you know includes humor as one of the characteristic they are looking for people they wanna meet. But even though only a selected few are born with this gift, you should not fret because there are ways how to learn this craft. So here are some ways on how you can use humor to your advantage during those times you wanna impress or attract other people.

Create suspense, then go for the kill. By pausing when the other person is trying to ask a serious question, you can manage to create suspense and at the same time, put the other person in a spot where they can be excited. And when they are starting to look like a kid staring at his gift on a Christmas morning, give a smart-ass answer still maintaining that poker-face seriousness. Now you're broken the ice and no more awkwardness to follow.

Use some playful sexual misinterpretation. There are many words and phrases that you can use this tactic with. For example is when your date says "Mmm, you know, I think it might be time to go home," answer by carefully muttering this phrase "I’ve only been talking to you for 15 minutes; I’m not going home with you." Try it, and they will find you adorable.

Mimicry is flattery. Try copying what your date is doing, but in a funny way. This way, you can actually make them ease up and relax because that is what you want for yourself, a hassle-free get-together. Like when you notice her being uncomfortable because she is so rigid when seated, you can pull your shoulder way back, sit up extra straight and then say "I really think you should work on your posture."

Honest, playful swatting. Now this does not mean that you'll go dominatrix on your date. Just pick up something, say a napkin, and playfully hit the other person with it, like when they say something funny. This tells your date that you are already comfortable with them. This also shows them your childish side, which is very attractive to most people.

Joking with compliments. Give you date a compliment, but with a twist. Say you notice their shoes, you can just go "I really think you should work on your posture." This is a guaranteed ball-buster.

Don't back down. If you really wanna use humor as your weapon in attracting people, you should never crack down from the act. As long as you know that you are not getting too annoying, just continue being the funny one unlike you crack your date up. if you quit, it will just show your date that you aren't serious with them. And besides, most people also tend to block funny people at first to see if they are just trying to be funny and not be funny at all.

So there, just some tips to help you realize that being a clown sometimes can give you good points when it comes to dating. But again, remember to just always be yourself as much as possible and avoid being someone you are not. This will definitely show and you don't wanna be caught red-handed while you're at it. Happy dating!

Effective Ways to Attract Men

Okay, last time we posted some tips for the guys out there so they would know what to do so they can attract women they like. So we thought of coming up with another post, this time giving out some helping hand to those ladies who might need some guide with hooking a guy for themselves. So for the nature of being fair, we have here effective ways for women to attract men.

Be confident of yourself. And this includes being confident about your physical appearance. Looks may be the first thing a guy would notice, but you should also be able to carry yourself. You might not be the supermodel most men desire, but there are still guys out there who are looking for the plain Jane who has the confidence needed to survive the real world.

Be beautiful, but don't overdo it. There is absolutely no need for you girls to look like a bimbo just to impress a guy. What most men, at least those that are of the decent kind, are looking for women with personality. But a little powder and lip gloss ain't that bad. The key: just look presentable and clean in front of them and they'll all be gawking after you.

Be happy. Happy women attracts men. In fact, they attract just about anything that is good. Well, imagine yourself being a guy and you see and girl all sad and lonely. You definitely don't have time for her. Looking like a pathetic mess ain't just cut it if you wanna have guys swarming all over you. Smile, a simple act like that can go for miles.

Be the master of body talk. Body language is one of the most effective way women can lure men into them. The first thing to remember is to make yourself approachable. How do you do that? Don't take a lot of space. Then after these, just follow your instinct and be sexy and confident enough, at the same time not being trashy.

Be yourself. No person like people who are pretentious, in any way. So don't try to be someone who you aren't. Just act normal around guys and let them fall for the real you. You don't have to make too much of an effort to lure them in if you are just being true to yourself.

So there you have it, some ways to effectively snatch that guy you have always been dreaming of. Remember, and we here at Dating 4-1-1 always say this, that these are just tips and suggestions. Dating is a fun experience and all you people should just enjoy it and do whatever you think is fun and right.

Effective Ways to Attract Women

Though there are lucky bastards out there who seems to have what it takes to always get the ladies, normals guys like us can still manage to snatch the big one for us if we only know what to do. And no, I'm not talking about silly pick-up lines this time. These are just some tips on how to attract the opposite sex for helpless romantic guys out there.

Be a master in communication. Women dig real men, those who are strong, independent and sure of himself - but not too much. That is why a good man should always know how to show these assets to women and the best way to do it is by communicating. Just look at the roster of romantic men in history and you'll see that many of them are guys who know how to use language to their advantage.

Always be certain. A strong guy should always be sure of himself. That is why men should just avoid being a wussbag and always be certain about things he is saying, doing and even thinking. And strong grip can also go along way when trying to impress the ladies.
Avoid being too emotional. Again, strong men attracts the most women. That is why being a crybaby is definitely a no-no when it comes to trying impress them. So avoid reliving your emotional past because you will just sound pathetic in front of the person you are trying to impress.

Know your strength and weaknesses. And just basically work this angle to your advantage to let the ladies see how perfect of a guy you are for them.
Learn how to plan. You've all probably heard women saying that they would rather be with guys who have dreams rather than being stuck with a pathetic low-life like you. Why not stop being a child and grow up and start making plans for your future.

Commit, commit, commit. It may sound scary, but if you're really sure that this is what you want, you guys better learn how to commit to this goal and do whatever you can to achieve it.

So there you go? Just remember that the dating scene out there is one heck of a jungle. That is why you should always know what you're getting into because in relationships, there is simply no turning back.

Worst First Date Location

Okay, you're right. The success of a date, specifically the first date, is all about chemistry, connection and good conversation. Making sure that your date like you and you like them is just about what dates are all about. But sometimes, well actually more often than not, being where are and what you are doing also do big when it comes to having big points on dates. Well, we here at Dating 4-1-1 having given you ideas on where and what to do on your first date. So now, how about we give each and every one of your romantic lovers a warning on where not to be during your first date. Ladies and gentlemen, here are some of the worst date location you people don't wanna be in...

His or her parent's house. Dating, as we all know it, should be done in slow steps toward progression. And meeting the parents is definitely not among those things you wanna do first. So just avoid dates involving you or your date's parents because it is just not the time for that.
A family function. Again, succession and patience is the key. And if either of you don't wanna meet the parents, that also goes with anyone of your relatives. That's why family gatherings, reunions and parties are just no-no's when it comes with the first date. You don't wanna let your date meet your annoying aunts and nephews the same day you are trying to impress him/her, don't you?
A non-traditional restaurant. It's alright to go adventurous when going out on dates. But not to the extent that you'll try eating something that you don't really have clue of what it is. SO just stay away from food joints that serves food that you and your date haven't tried out before. You don't wanna remember your first date by the fact that one of your kept on throwing up or taking trips to the bathroom...

Arcades. Being young is good, even if it's only being young at heart. But being childish? That's a different situation altogether. If you're a teenage boy trying to impress your crush, maybe this is a good idea. But if you're already a grown-up guy who is making your own money already, aside from this date being completely stupid, it will just send signals to your date that you are a cheap bastard.

Fastfood joints. Come on, it's your first date with a person you wanna impress. Taking him/her to a fastfood restaurant like McDonalds or Burger King is just pathetic and way cheap. Why not just take them to Chucky Cheese and forget about that second date?
A hotel or a motel. Unless you're some big-time rockstar, you cannot take your date to your hotel or motel room. Aside from giving them an impression that you are some twisted, horny pervert, it is just not cool having your first date with a total stranger in a room with a bed in it.

Shopping malls. This is a shout out to all the ladies. Not all guys like walking through every stores and bringing your things. In fact, most guys just hates shopping. So don't expect your date to have fun because being your shopping buddy on the first date is just not that fun.

The movies. Well, this is kinda tricky actually. But as we all know, first dates are all about getting to know each other. So how would you guys do that when you're trying to watch some movie for two hours? Ummm... NEVER!

Again, these things are just suggestions and ideas. Just always remember that dating is not a clear science and there are really no strict rules to be followed. Just learn to have fun and appreciate the person you're with, and you're surely not gonna go wrong on any dates.

What to Talk About on That First Date...

Congratulations! You just got yourself a date with that hot chick you were eyeing at the bar. Or you're the the hot chick at the bar and you decided that it's alright to go out on a date with this hunky guy. Both of you decided that you'd rather have dinner together instead of taking too much time thinking what kind of date you should go to. Well, it's okay because the first date really is the time to get to know the person you're going out with to find out if they're worth your time. But of course, you can't just go ahead and order then eat your food as fast as you can so you could go home and watch TV. You have to talk with your date so the two of you can have a chance to know more about each other. Say weigh if you'll really click with each other. So here are just some ideas on what you guys can and cannot talk about on your first date.

Avoid talking about the past. Come on, it's your first date. You still have no right to dig up his/her life story. Especially when it comes to their past relationship. Keep th conversation off from issues about the ex's. It's either you'll just end up hurting your date because of bad memories or you getting pissed because they are still not over their former lovers.

"Got any brothers or sisters". This is one of the safe topics you can talk about. It's not very intrusive when asking your date if they have siblings. In fact, it just goes to show that you are very interested not only with them, but also their family. But remember, avoid asking about parents because this may also brought bad memories if they experienced a divorce or separation in the family.

Ask about the places where your date have been. Talking about past travel destinations, yours and your date's, will be fun. Not to say you'll get to know more about their personality because you'll know what kinds of things they like. This will also give you an idea to what kind of second date you can have, granting this first date goes well.

Talk about career plans. This one is actually tricky. For one, your date might go on and on about their achievement in school and on the job, making your night out more lively. But on the other hand, your date may just become upset because they are not really having good time with their work. Just be sure if the latter happen, you have a escape route or another topic in your head.

Ask about their friends. Many people say that you can judge a person with what kind of friends they have. This is a sure way of knowing your date's personality without being too intrusive and pushy. This way, your date may also think that you are nice for asking about people that are close to her.

"What do you do on your free time?" Another safe way to make sure that your date is opening up to you. If they are comfortable talking about things they do on their free time like going to the movies, shopping, roller blading, that means you're in. And this will also give you an idea for a fun activity you both can enjoy for future dates.

"What kind of music do you listen to?" Find out if you guys have the same taste in music. If you do, good for you. If not, tough luck. But at least you get to know what kind of person your date is because of the music they listen to. If more of the mellow type, then your date the sweet kind of person. But if they like heavy metal and goth, then prepare for more wild and crazy fun with them.

There you have it. These are just some ideas of things you guys can talk about when out on that first date. Just remember once again, that first dates are usually the time you'll get to know the other person a little better. So take advantage of this time and make the best out of it and make sure you are getting as much information about your date as you can. This is kind of the make-or-break part of it all, if you still wanna go for that second date or if you wanna bail. So good luck!

First Date Ideas

Okay, after countless hours with flirting and trying to pickup a date on bars, restaurants, coffee houses and malls, you finally got that elusive date with a person you think would likely become a long-time partner. But now, the big question in mind: What kind of date should you bring him/her to? There are so many activities that you can think of that you two can do together. But be careful, because some of them may actually have you crawling back to your very own loner's cave because you turned off your date. That is why we have here some great ideas for our first date with that lucky heart you have just reeled in. Try these first date ideas to be able to impress your future lover, and at the same time know more about him/her to make sure he/she is no some kind of creep.

Go to an amusement park. Okay, this date might be a bit expensive for the first one. But this way you can show your date that you are no cheap bastard and is willing to shell out some money for him/her. Nice way to impress someone, especially the ladies. Also, when you guys are waiting in line to ride the roller coaster, you can pass time by having a great conversation. This way you get to know more about your date which shows that you are really interested on them. And admit it, there is still that kid inside you who wants the thrill of riding amusement rides.

Attend a fair or a festival. It's a lot of fun being in fairs and festivals. There are tons of activities you guys can try out - from pie eating contest to playing parlor games and riding the ferris wheel. If you're a guy, you can also impress your lady friend by trying to win a stuff toy for her in one of those games where you hit a target or shoot a ball through a hoop. This date will have you showing your sensitive and manly side both at the same time.

Play some kind of sports together. It can be billiards, bowling, badminton or even mini-golf. This way you can impress your date with your baller skills, at the same time still having a meaningful conversation with each other. And there is nothing that can make two people a lot closer by having fun together.

Do something artsy. Why not go to one of those pottery shop where you can paint the pots and vase. This way, you both can enjoy an activity together that you can do while talking and getting to know each other. This way, you can also impress your date by showing your artistic side. This is something both men and women find attractive.

Be one with nature. You guys can go hiking, or even walking along the nearest park. Or maybe go to a zoo, an aquarium or an aviary. While checking out the beauty of the environment and discovering the magical wonder that is Mother Nature, you guys can be closer by having a meaningful conversation to get to know each other better.

So there you go. These are just some ideas for what you guys can do when going out for your first date. You can also come up with something more unique and more fun. Just remember that the key to a nice first date is that you guys should have time to talk to each other to get to know each other. And of course, both of you should have lots of fun.

Most Common Date Mishaps, and How to Avoid Them

Dating is hard work, we all know that. That is why all of us just needs every little help we could get, especially when it comes to not being a complete idiot when out on a nice night-out with a beautiful lady or a handsome bloke. But as much as we planned everything that will happen during a romantic dinner date, there are still thing that could go wrong. Maybe it's because the dating gods and goddesses just wanna test us or just wanna have fun in our expense. But no matter what it is, we should always handle every situation like seasoned veteran so we don't make fools of ourselves in front of the people we so badly want to impress. So here are just some date mishaps that could happen and ways you can get out of them.

1. The Spray. The saying "Say it, don't spray it" pretty much is always the rule when you are out on a date. But we all know that it can happen to anyone, even the most classy and poised individual out there. So when this happen, casually wipe the area where the "rain" fell. If in case there are bits of food that was part of the "downfall," pick them up without your date noticing it. But if it's too noticeable already, just laugh and shrug the situation and don't make a big deal out of it. You can apologize for it, but not too much.

2. The Whole Tooth. You're eating and you just can't stop enjoying the delicious food, especially you are with someone you like so much. And all of a sudden, your date tells you that you have something stuck between your teeth. It could be poppy seeds, lettuce, meat or spinach, but you can still get away with your dignity even after a mishap like this. Just smile and excuse yourself so you can remove it. Just don't do it in front of your date and you're all good. Just get up and go to the bathroom and clean your teeth there.

3. The Spaz. This situation is a bit tricky. Because you are on dinner and eating some food, probably something with sauce can spill, or maybe wine, there is always an instance that it will spill on you. So if this happen, act out innocent but just smiling and maybe saying "whoops!" This way, your date may actually find you cute. But of course after that, you need to clean up the mess by using a napkin to wipe out the damaged area. If ever you need more time with it, just excuse yourself and go to the bathroom and do the scrubbing there. Just don't take too long of a time.

4. The Drop Out. Food are not the only thing that can fall down. Utensils may also end up leaving the table and down on the floor. If this happen, don't you pick that spoon or fork up. Instead, call a waiter and tell him what happened. He'll be the one who'll take care of your dilemma by handing you another utensil.

5. The Food Face. Delicious food, nice ambiance and a romantic set-up - you will surely get carried away with eating so food may end up in your face. So if that happens, just wipe it off gently. If in case it is your date you noticed it and told you about it, just smile or laugh a little, wipe that food off your face and say thank you. Just don't make a big deal about it and go on with your wonderful date.

So there you go. A list of some of the most common date mishaps. They may be little and simple by nature, but they can really ruin a date when not handled very gracefully and carefully. Just follow these simple advice and you're on your way to that elusive next date.