Sunday, May 25, 2008

Signs That You Should Move On

One important lesson every person should learn about dating: when it seems that things are not working out, it's time to bail out. This is to avoid any more wasted time, money and effort. And of course, hurt feelings. But you're probably asking right now how would you know when to bail out. When is the right time that you should call it quits with the person you're dating just because it won't go anywhere? Is there any signs that can tell you to just quit and move on the next person? Well, there are. And here they are...

Invitation declined. This is a clear sign that a person is not that interested in you. If a person keeps on turning down your offer for a cup of coffee or a dinner, eh or she probably is not into you. Especially if it's already the millionth time you ask and they are still saying no.

No friend introduction. One way to see if a relationship is moving forward is through something called comfort zone. And one perk of being in this zone is getting to meet the other person's friends, if not their family. But if you guys have already gone out for a whole month, without him or her saying anything about meeting their friends, my friend, it's time to bail out. This is especially true in cases that you yourself keep on bugging you partner about doing something with his or her friend but he or she always find a way not to go with it.

Always with friends. This is the exact opposite of the above point. Though meeting your partners friends is good, having them always around like bodyguards during dates and what nots, is also a bad sign. This just goes to show that the person does not want to spend time with you alone and they have no interest in you in any way. But you certainly can be friends.

Talking about other people. If your boyfriend keeps on talking about that hot chick she saw or your girlfriend always telling you how she have this huge crush on a guy at work, just take it as a signal that they are no longer interested in you. This is actually a pretty clear sign, and only pathetic losers, or blind and deaf people, won't get.

Avoiding intimate settings. Okay, you may had the chance to bring the person to a dinner or a movie, but when you tried asking her to go away for the weekend or something more intimate, he or she always find an excuse not to come, better say bye-bye as soon as possible. This just goes to show that the other person is not ready for something deeper and more serious. And if you're the person who wants security, then better bail out when this sign comes up.

No physical contact. This includes hand touching, peck on the chick and other small gestures. If you are not getting these stuff, you probably won't have any chance getting more.

Playing cupid. If the person you're dating keeps on setting you up with other people, that just mean that they are not into you. This is especially true with girls. So guys, if the person you are having an interest to keeps on introducing you to her friend and setting you up on dates, the best thing to do is just go on those dates and forget about her.

No call back. The most blatant sign of all. If the person does not return your call, it's pretty obvious that it's time for goodbye.

This may sound too familiar, but it's true that there are millions of people out there that are probably more suitable to you. Don't waste time and effort on someone who is not really into you. So if you see these signs on the people you are interested on or dating at the moment, it is just about time to bail out and move on to the next thing.

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