Monday, June 9, 2008

Signs That You Are Getting Lucky

One of the most complicated factors when it come to the dating game is whether the other person is interested, especially the more serious part of the relationship, the sexual. It is very easy to misinterpret a mere act of kindness as sexual interest so everybody should be careful not to quick to assume, or else you're goal will just slip away that easily too. So deciphering their gestures, language and movement is very well important in this stage to know when you really are going to get lucky. So we here at Dating 4-1-1 decided to just help you guys out to avoid any more confusions so you'll know when to make THAT move. So here are some signs that may indicate that you are going to get some.

Drinks for everyone
If the person offers to buy you a drink or already bought one for you, it is a clear indication that they are pretty interested in you. This also shows, if the person is a woman, that she is a confident and strong type of lady who knows what she wants. So if she's giving you this invitation, take it before she change her mind.


Touchy feelings
Body language is a key in knowing if a person is interested in you, especially to know if they are willing to go to the physical. So if your date keeps on touching you affectionately on the arms or the legs in the midst of a conversation, chances are they are also trying to tell you that they want you to do the same with them later on. This is also true if they let you touch them and feel you up.

Compliments, compliments, compliments...
Women are not the only ones who like being praised and commended. Men too like getting their egos fed, especially by women. That is why is your date keeps on complimenting your looks, the way you dress and the smell of your cologne, they are definitely looking for something more later on in the night that will let you show them that you like what they were saying about you.

Eye contacts
If your date maintains prolonged eye contacts, those lasting more than 5 seconds with you during your conversation, this just shows that they have extra interest in you and is not afraid to explore on these feelings later on.

Lean in, lean out

Most people maintain their personal space when they are talking to people they don't really like. But the opposite is true for people who is showing interest to another person. So if your date keeps on leaning towards you when you guys are talking, this just means that they definitely wanna get closer.

Sharing privates

Okay, not that private yet. But you're definitely getting closer if your date is already comfortable in sharing private information to you. So if you find yourself engaging in more a personal talk with your date, it is probably time to make your move to be a bit more personal with them too.

Talking dirty
There is no clearer sign that you are getting lucky if your date starts talking about sexual stuff with you. This just means that you are over that vanilla-boundary and ready to explore each other a little bit better. So don't let the moment pass you and reciprocate. If you did it right, you'll probably end up in the right side of the bed.

Okay, so there is really no scientific formula to help daters predict how their night out will end up. But if you only take time to be aware of the small details such as these stated above, you can at least be sure that your rating when it comes to "scoring" will go up a notch higher.

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